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| Author: | longtin [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 3:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My problem |
Guys ...i would like to know how to mortivate my self to do what i want to when i want to...because my main problem with my game is that i freeze when its time to perform....many a time i picture what i'd like to do but when i get the platform i just freeze and do nothing..i just sit there ..fighting with my self on the inside...1 side saying just do this ish (motivating me) whilst the other side just tells me to just dont embarrass my self or what if she doesnt like it (discouraging me) guys i really want to get good but too much inner drama ...how do i get over this ...i hate it...i have been reading Tao of Badass and some books....but still i fail when i get the chance...im usually good on texting and chatting....but in real life i cant push thru -- i am a photographer and id like to be able to work to a pretty lady and ask to take a picture of her ...but im so filled with excuses its shame ...help me |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 3:57 pm ] |
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Hey bro...We have all been exactly where you are at! You need to start approaching without any expactations. Start out by saying "hello" to every person you pass on the street. Then when you don't feel awkward doing that anymore add some light conversation "Hey, Don't you just love this amazing day!?", and then follow their answer with a "Yeah, I could be out in this forever. Have a good one" Did you attempt the 30 day challenge yet? If not, do that!!! Stay on day 1-3 for as long as it takes to be comfortable doing it, then move to day 4+. You do need to push yourself to try a little more each time. Remember, no girl is going to slap you for saying hello! Peace... |
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