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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How should I text this girl - she may think business only |
Ok, I mentioned this girl in another thread a week or so ago. I met her at a club like 2-3 weeks ago. Didn't get her number (didn't strike out, but she got distracted by another guy while I was talking to my friend). Anyway, run into her in a Starbucks last week, about 10 days ago. She says she is going to Ireland for 10 days (i.e., until today or tomorrow), and it seems legitimate, we exchanged numbers, but do so under like, business pretenses. Like, there was light flirting and funny comments, but we started talking about business. Now, business is fine - I wouldn't mind doing the side work for her company, but I'm really more interested in the girl. Presuming she is back in town today or tomorrow - when is the best time to text her? I was figuring a day or two after, so she had time to recover, and then not even mentioning business, just inviting her out to coffee? Would that be a wise idea? Or bad? Should I make it obvious I am interested in more than just business? I think she knows, but I'm not certain. |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:52 pm ] |
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Bump. I'd like to text her today. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 2:21 pm ] |
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Don't talk about business...Lead the conversation and stay off of business topics! Ask her how her trip went, talk to her about the people/scenery and guide her into how it made her feel to have the opportunity to visit there. Relate yourself to her feelings (associate) and then move to the next topic of discussion. Don't forget to drop a tease or joke into the convo here and there. Once a little repport is built, ask her to meet you for a coffee or whatever. Peace... |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 11:46 am ] |
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Worked perfectly! We texted all yesterday with no discussion of business. Sadly I was on a date with another girl, so I stopped texting her after a bit. She seems to like me though! |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 8:04 pm ] |
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Ok, now she's texted me saying she might be dragged (we both made fun of) to the club that me and her originally met in. That's for tonight. Is this a covert way of her trying to get me to invite myself? She asked me if I had been back there since I met her originally (I did, two days ago) and told her. I'm not really feeling like going clubbing again tonight, but it'd be nice to hang out with her. |
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