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Author:  RMR90 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Girls at my work
Hi all!

First of all, let me say thanks to this whole community, some pretty good advices here! :D

Now let me make just a brief explanation of my situation. I'm that kind of an AFC who's 22yo and 0 girlfriends, shy, wears glasses... you know the lot. Although, I'm not a complete numb, as I had my windows of opportunities with a few pretty girls I liked a lot, but back then I hadn't grown a proper pair and couldn't progress further on the field. :oops:
But generally speaking, being shy I'm not very talkative unless I get into a confort zone with a specific group or girl (generally when theresn't many people in the group and she talks wide open).

I've been reading some PUA stuff for a few months and it's like a whole new world to discover. Believe me I had a lot of wrong ideas before, even if I can't still correct my attitude enough.

To the point... a month and a half ago I got this part-time job as a cashier in a hypermarket, and I have like a handfull of HB co workers under my eye. Although shy, I'm a very pleasent and cheerful guy, and overall, my partners sympathize with me a lot, but there's this f*ing gorgeous HB8 which seems a bit cold minded, which she actually isn't, she's very talkative with elder co workers, clients' kids and stuff...
I opened her in a light way on a few different occasions and I didn't get much from her. Sometimes we finish shifts at the same time, and I happen to meet her alone at the room where we drop the money of the day, or the other way around. It's a brief moment, like 2/3 mins, and I freeze, I can't come up with anything and she's all in a hurry, just a light smile from side to side and say bye.
How do I cater her attention? I realize I have to neg her and DHV, am I right? If so, how?
Bear in mind my time is often limited, because there aren't many chances that we stay so often in "neighbour" counters, and even though that's also time limited, coz there isn't many time when there aren't any clients through our counters.

Do you think I should forget and move on? There are more, but the more ducks I try to shoot, the more I'll have a chance to hit. :P

Btw, what's your opinion on this case...

On my first day, I was being introduced to the procedures by this HB6/7. When I first started doing something she complimented me like "You learn fast!:D". Then came some english tourists and she couldn't speak to them, I did the talkings and she said "That's you that I need here next to me :D". Then some clients shit chatted with us and when they left I was still on the topic and talked a bit of my situation, college and stuff, and on the way she said she had a baby, which instantly cut my nuts and I stopped thinking of getting any longer. Later I realized how dumb I was, coz it never seemed to me that she was with the baby's father or had a boyfriend at all, but I may be completely wrong.
What do you think? Did it mean anything or nothing at all?

Well, there are a few more cases, but that's enough for now, don't wan't to bother you.:)

Sorry for the long post and thanks in advance!
Author:  charblad [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 2:19 am ]
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Some tips
Don't neg - even if you're a amateur pua negs will only hurt, you literally don't have to use them at all but if you know them and EXACTLY how to do them they can help
Your co-worker that seems very social - is paid to be, I'm paid to say "Hi how are you today" and talk about the weather to all our customers, do I actually care? not at all, they just get me paid - try approaching me outside of work XD
What can you say in that short of time? "hey what are 3 reasons your so good at your job?" "XXX" "oh cool we should hang out sometime" - if that doesn't work than you need to find more time to build rapport w her
and it means what you want, if you want it to mean nothing don't act on it, if you do start gaming her; it depends on your perspective
Author:  iceg001 [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 4:16 am ]
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ask her an opinion question that will make her think and want to take the time to chat up

such as

Hey (her name) maybe you could help me out! I'm having a party at my place and I cant decide what take out food I should order any suggestions?


this will let her talk to you and will give you info as to what she likes ie date location material :)

don't invite her though because she will know its a pickup as soon as you do. and if she asks about it say its just a bunch of friends coming over to celebrate. if she asks what are you celebrating tell her you will talk later and that you have to go since you are in a hurry.

She will ask how the party went and you can go from there using your imagination but dont get carried away
Author:  RMR90 [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 1:13 pm ]
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Thanks a lot for your advices in first place! :D

That party topic sounds great to me!
While questioning her the reasons why she's good at her work sounds good too, I don't feel as confortable to place the question, as I may well mess up the tone and that plays a big role. If I sound too much like enforcing a conversation she won't take me serious. However if she's in a good mood towards me I might well give it a try. :wink:

Now back to the party, is it ok to note that I'm looking for a girls opinion (not to sound that I'm looking at hers specifically)? Or will it sound like I'm not getting girls into my party, which is bad? :lol:

Me and some friends were actually planning to make a big round of clams and srimp and stuff one of these days, so it may also come in hand. :)

Thanks again!
Author:  RMR90 [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 11:45 pm ]
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Here's the latest news... so, today at the end of my shift, when I was dropping the money and vouchers and all that stuff, there she came. She rang on the room's bell and I took a while to open. When I opened the door, there she was, and was already heading back to pick up the keys, and this shit chat followed:

HB: Humm, you are trying to fool me :D ...

Me: Huh, can't still distinguish this bell from the phone...

(Supervisor was also at the room, so I didn't came up with the party line. Then, as HB was doing her stuff, I was already on my way out.)

Me: Look, today I get out before you :lol: !

HB: But you always end your shift earlier than me :D . (like mocking me)

Me: Yeah, even though I always manage to get out after you :lol: . (I was/am still a bit slow dispatching the different stuff to their proper places)

HB: Don't know how you can do it :) . (mocking me again)

Me: Bye :) !
HB: Bye :) !

So at least it seems that I could get her more at ease with me from our last interactions. But I may have looked like a clown now :roll: , what do you think?
Author:  charblad [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 12:30 am ]
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Sounds like she wants you to game her, the only thing thats stopping you is... You
And why does your supervisor care about your personal life? I have 4-5 supervisors and all of them are chill unless youre like "hey wanna fuck?" your just talking to another person like everybody else
Try just opening her right away next time, my favorite line is "hi" it always get her to reply :D and you woulnt have so much anxiety if you spend 10 minutes looking at her wondering what to say compared to seeing her, and walking up
If you think you'll look like a clown, why not look like one in 2 minutes instead of looking like a pussy then a clown for 10?
Author:  RMR90 [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 12:46 pm ]
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Quote:
Sounds like she wants you to game her
This is what I wanted to hear! :D
Thanks for your encouragement. You're right, I have nothing to lose in looking like a clown rather than a pussy for a moment loool. :lol:

Maybe this topic could be moved to "Mid-game" section or something, as this section is a bit congested.

Btw, what do you guys think of the other HB6 I mentioned in the first post? Is there any worth indicator there? She always shows me a big smile, but either do some of the other HBs...
Author:  RMR90 [ Tue Sep 25, 2012 12:36 am ]
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Hi.

Sorry for digging my topic but I need help again. :lol:
So, the other day I had this little convo going with this HB7. I just opened her in a very light way actually, I wasn't expecting such a big feedback so soon (it was the first time i really had an opportunity to have a convo with her), then she went on to describe me her whole night out the night before, how amazing it was, how drunk she got and so. Of course I played along the same lines while describing my night. She told me she didn't went out at a long time ago and again, of course I took the advantage to drop the hint and say "we should go have a drink one of theese days :D ".
Now, do you think the next time I come across her is it ok for me to go straight to her with a huge smile and say something like "when are we getting our guzzle (i mean, getting drunk)? :D Today is "whatever" night. :wink: ".
And how should I transition to #close in any kind of situation?
Remember we haven't still talked very much.

Thanks in advance!
Author:  RMR90 [ Tue Sep 25, 2012 10:49 pm ]
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Please... :P
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