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| Author: | student1 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What's the pick up community thoughts about confessing? |
Confessions as in like asking a girl out and telling them about your feelings. What are your thoughts on this? Is this recommended. If not what are the alternatives? Thanks in advance! |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:22 pm ] |
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You can tell her you like her, try making it as covert as possible though. It's a lot more attractive. If you start spilling your emotions then you are going to be a little bitch and she will subconsciously see you as desperate. |
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| Author: | exclusiveme [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:17 pm ] |
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Quote: You can tell her you like her, try making it as covert as possible though. It's a lot more attractive. If you start spilling your emotions then you are going to be a little bitch and she will subconsciously see you as desperate.
Can you give me an example of how to do it covertly? Do you mean like 'throwing hints' that you like her? Sorry, this next question is noob, but what happens if she sees you as desperate? Are there good or bad desperation or desperation is always bad? When is being desperate good? |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:20 pm ] |
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Yeah, covert is when she hears it from someone else, or you do something indirect to let her know. Then it let her mind wonders, and while shes thinking about you, she's not thinking about anyone else. And desperate is never good. If she knows you are desperate for her she will think, why me? whats so goo about me over other girls etc.... it destroys you as a person in the sexual market. You want to be a man who is wanted by other woman, if she knows that you are desperate for her and only her then she will lose respect for you (natural instincts) and move on. |
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| Author: | exclusiveme [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:24 pm ] |
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Quote: Yeah, covert is when she hears it from someone else, or you do something indirect to let her know. Then it let her mind wonders, and while shes thinking about you, she's not thinking about anyone else.
So like I can just get someone to hint to her that I like her and this will create some attraction in her for me? What if I do it up front like just go straight up to her and be like 'This is how I feel about you.' Why is covert more attractive? And desperate is never good. If she knows you are desperate for her she will think, why me? whats so goo about me over other girls etc.... it destroys you as a person in the sexual market. You want to be a man who is wanted by other woman, if she knows that you are desperate for her and only her then she will lose respect for you (natural instincts) and move on. I see about the second part. Thank you! |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:31 pm ] |
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this is fucking sweet, do it often to alot of girls, and stop caring about specifics or if it ''works'' it feels great just to get it out there, it's like passive permission to say and do what you want when you are on regular speaking terms with girls who certainly know what you are about, and you can take them or leave them at any point as long as you don't care what happens as a result, you are in a great position |
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| Author: | exclusiveme [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:36 pm ] |
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Quote: this is fucking sweet, do it often to alot of girls, and stop caring about specifics or if it ''works''
I see. So just speak your mind and if she wants you, then great. If not, then at least you were being you.
it feels great just to get it out there, it's like passive permission to say and do what you want when you are on regular speaking terms with girls who certainly know what you are about, and you can take them or leave them at any point as long as you don't care what happens as a result, you are in a great position |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:53 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: this is fucking sweet, do it often to alot of girls, and stop caring about specifics or if it ''works''
I see. So just speak your mind and if she wants you, then great. If not, then at least you were being you.it feels great just to get it out there, it's like passive permission to say and do what you want when you are on regular speaking terms with girls who certainly know what you are about, and you can take them or leave them at any point as long as you don't care what happens as a result, you are in a great position |
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| Author: | exclusiveme [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:02 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: this is fucking sweet, do it often to alot of girls, and stop caring about specifics or if it ''works''
I see. So just speak your mind and if she wants you, then great. If not, then at least you were being you.it feels great just to get it out there, it's like passive permission to say and do what you want when you are on regular speaking terms with girls who certainly know what you are about, and you can take them or leave them at any point as long as you don't care what happens as a result, you are in a great position |
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