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Author:  moke [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Why do the best looking girls have the most problems?
Any guys notice how the best looking girls always seem to have the biggest insecurities? This isnt just refering to the red flags such a daddy problems and wanting to be babied/treated like a princess. Anyone else notice this and what are your takes on it? I personally find it very unattractive myself.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 5:21 pm ]
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Any guys notice how the best looking girls always seem to have the biggest insecurities? This isnt just refering to the red flags such a daddy problems and wanting to be babied/treated like a princess. Anyone else notice this and what are your takes on it? I personally find it very unattractive myself.
These are the girls commonly referred to as "Freaks" and also the ones most Men are drawn to sexually.

At least until the point in life you want to "Settle down".

Tell tail sign over the age of 18, at least one tattoo
Author:  MrBreeze [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 5:29 pm ]
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Tell tail sign over the age of 18, at least one tattoo
Haha, tattoo, piercings, she smokes, Overly whorish cloths.... I just run with it.


I think its a point of perspective. Women that have had everything handed to them their whole life might have an easier life and never learned how to deal with lifes hiccups. Maybe if they are pretty they are move likey to be molested as a child. If they have had everyone give them what they want maybe they expect someone to fix them as well. Who knows but I can tell you that youre right on. Paris Hilton acted like her life was over because she had to spend a week in jail and most humans would just deal with it. Drama Drama Drama....
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 5:38 pm ]
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Hot chicks are almost always high maintenance. The reason is because guys will pamper them so they can sleep with them. Then the women get accustomed to this sort of SPAM and expect it all the time. Then when life doesn't go their way, they fall apart, break down, or lash out, simply because they are used to having everything handed to them. It's like spoiling a child.

Hot chicks build an identity around their "pretty girl" persona, which can easily be disrupted by an insult or some alteration to their physical appearance. I knew this HB9 who broke down into tears because her hair appointment got bumped back a couple days. Girls like that have so much invested in their appearance that it's a big deal to look just average or unkept, even for a short period of time. Women in general are incredibly superficial and insecure, but the ugly ones are forced to accept their place. The hot ones on the otherhand are burdened with maintaining a certain aesthetic appeal, and its really upsetting to them when/if they are not able to do that.
Author:  dark one [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 8:08 pm ]
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My gf has what I call ugly duck syndrome lol

She was teased as a child, but as she got older and grew into her body she became hot! solid hb 9/10, yet in her eyes as she tells me "I think of my self as average looking...mabey a 7".

She also had a poor role model as a mother and her father was absent during most of her teen years which really messed with her self esteem as well.

Its sad really! because she is a knock out! and it frustrates the shit out of me that she can't see it!

p.s

I don't think its that hot girl are more messed up then average or ugly women, I think its that most of us hit on hb 8's and above which would be considered "hot" and so we don't see the problems that other women (hb 6 and bellow) have.
Author:  moke [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 6:14 am ]
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She also had a poor role model as a mother and her father was absent during most of her teen years which really messed with her self esteem as well.

Its sad really! because she is a knock out! and it frustrates the shit out of me that she can't see it!


I ran into one of these recently and was thinking of a steady, but that brings in the whole mother problem. It seems when there was a poor mother figure they tend to over compensate, or have some interesting self esteem issues. And your right it is truely a shame that a few years can leave such a bad impression in a persons persona.
Author:  Paul_T [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 7:00 am ]
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I'm with TonyKing on this - it's often a mix of problems of being overworshiped, and a lack of strong role models for her when growing up. The hottest girls I've met who had their head screwed on, have been from stable families. Also often they only got really hot in their late teens, and hence had a few less years of having every guy tripping over himself to get in her pants.

Don't be too hard on these girls. Everyone has heard the phrase "it's lonely at the top". That.
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:21 am ]
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Because they create those problems themselves.

I was having lunch with a friend, and she told me about this hot queen bee we both know. This girl rounds up a group all the time, says, "We're going to board my dad's plane and fly to our cabin in Alaska! Woo!!!" She assembles the group, talks it up, gets very specific about the details and how much fun it's going to be. Yadda yadda.

Well, the day before the trip, she goes AWOL. Doesn't answer her phone, no response via text. No one can get ahold of her until they spot her in person months down the line, and then it becomes this, "Hey!!! My god, good to see you, lady! We need to hang out sometime! *insert reference to half-funny memory both girls share*!"

I mean, these people have jobs and probably requested vacation time to go on this trip. Some even ask to come along when she plans the trip the next time, but it never happens. And they don't say ANYTHING! Because they fear that if they call this girl out, they will become social pariahs.

Deep down though, a hot girl wants to be called out on her shit, because she has no idea what it's like to be held accountable.
Author:  Dusty-Page [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:59 am ]
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Bimbos bro, bimbos.
Almost every hot girl I've ever dated had issues. :roll: i don't know, I always seem to pick em. And I agree, the last girl I had, lost her mom at an early age and so it happens that she turned out to be Daddy's little spoiltbrat. She would text and if I didn't respond immediately, she would literally go bazerk! Call my folks and burst out crying. and i got it she was just scared of losing me cause she had lost so much in her life already.
I ended up dumping her anyway though.
Im sure lesser goodlooking girls also have their fair share of problems, that we're unaware off though.

But in a weird way I love my Bimbos. :wink:

“You know who is confused? Bimbos. They’re easily confused. It’s one of the thousand little things I love about them. I love their vacant, trusting stares; their sluggish, unencumbered minds; their unresolved daddy issues. I love them , and they love me. Bimbos have always been there for me, through thick and thin—mostly thin. D-man don’t do thick crust, what up!” lol
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 1:00 pm ]
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Lack Leadership
Only a handfull of guys have a strong enough frame to grab and maintain a leading position in a relationship despite many of her shit tests, bitch fits insecurities etc. Every single woman functions and performs better if she has a strong male leader in her lift. This is not male chauvinism, it's a scientifically proven fact and a partial reason is that women do not like to take responsibility for their actions which in turn results in females also prefering male leadership over female.

Didnt mean to drift away from the OT but this, in my opinion, are some of the reasons the hottest chicks are the most insecure ones.
Ding fuckin Ding Tony good call!
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 1:25 pm ]
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Lack Leadership
Only a handfull of guys have a strong enough frame to grab and maintain a leading position in a relationship despite many of her shit tests, bitch fits insecurities etc. Every single woman functions and performs better if she has a strong male leader in her lift. This is not male chauvinism, it's a scientifically proven fact and a partial reason is that women do not like to take responsibility for their actions which in turn results in females also prefering male leadership over female.

Didnt mean to drift away from the OT but this, in my opinion, are some of the reasons the hottest chicks are the most insecure ones.
Ding fuckin Ding Tony good call!
Much obliged sir! :)

I'm gonna say this again:

One of the most powerful, sexually provocative words spoken to a woman -NO-!!
Author:  newpua2012 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:15 pm ]
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low self esteem, have you ever read about super models/models having them? they are the biggest for them and have low self esteem. Some of these models are just too thin.

Women don't want to be held accountable, they are scared etc.... This is why men are leaders of the world.
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