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| Author: | Sails [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 10:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First time in years to snatch a number |
I know I literally posted my Introductory Post on this forum today, but I thought I'd tell a quick story that happend this last friday. I was out with a couple of girl "friends" from work and had a good time dancing. Towards the end of the night I got enough liquid courage in me to ask a girl i saw dancing by herself if she'd dance with me... She did, and we synced well out there, but she was a little drunk and on occasion tipping over.... We got into a little small talk and she asked me a few questions, to be honest I don't even remember what we talked about. I couldn't even remember her name... But I managed to get her number right before I left the club. The next morning I decided to text her to get some attention. (I know, needy, right?).. I said "You dance ok for a drunk girl. How are you feelin'?" Her: "Who is this?" Me: "most call me so and so, what's yours" --- Immdiately i thought to myself, WHAT the FUCK who says that?... Her: Deandra... I'm sorry I gave you my phone number. I don't know why I did, I have a boyfriend... But, your cool though." Me: "Ok, no apologies needed I'll delete you now" Her: "But, your cool though" Me: "lol" I immediately deleted her number without thoroughly thinking it through. My first thought was, "but i'm cool though??? dork". She was HB7, but I didn't want to annoy her with drunken texts that night so I followed through with deleting the her number. SHould I have deleted the number? What could I have said, if anything, to continue business as usual? I'm just trying to figure out if this could have played out differently. |
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| Author: | clearspeak [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 11:05 pm ] |
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This is just another example of why phone numbers should not be seen as goals in themselves. There are many situations where a person will give someone their phone number without it meaning anything. Being drunk is certainly one of them. The question should always be whether you've created enough of a connection for them to care when you use that number. If not, it's just a cheap thrill for a beginner with nothing really to come from it. |
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| Author: | Sails [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 8:32 pm ] |
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Point well taken. Thanks man. |
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