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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 6:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Too soon to ask for number? |
Background info with this chick... Went to high school together, weren't really friends but had some casual talk here and there. That was 6 years ago (wow I feel old now), haven't seen each other until a wedding a couple months ago. My cousin married her cousin, talked briefly with her at the wedding. Had a good time though, wasn't afraid to hit the dance floor and make a fool of myself. She tagged me in a picture of her brother and myself on Facebook, I used to be friends with him in college, but we have grown apart since. A couple days after that it was her birthday, so I wrote on her wall and was one of the few posts she responded to (she got a lot too, I feel unloved haha). Fast forward to now, she sent me a request to "like" a page for the place that she works. Not sure if it was on accident or not, but I "liked" it and sent her a message... Quote: Me: *Name*!
Her response back...i "liked" that *page name* page per your request, looks like you work there? what exactly is done at that place? and now that ive done you a favor, i ask for one in return. what are some good bars in *city she lives*? some friends and i plan on making a trip out there one weekend, want to know where we should go... thanks! Quote: Her: Hey *name*! Thanks for "liking" my page haha. Yes I do work for *company name* and *name* Foundation. Pretty much we handle all *famous person*'s stuff.. which includes personal things.. appearances.. merchandise.. travel arrangements.. lots of random things haha.. I mostly do event planning for the foundation tho. It's an crazy place.. but fun! haha I could definatly tell you some good bars in *her city*.. i guess it depends what kinds of places you are looking to go to.. usually we just go out on *street name*.. *bar1* and *bar2* are my favorites. *bar1* is more just a hang out bar and *bar2* is a nicer place where people like to dance.. haha If you were thinking of going downtown I'd stick to *bar3*, *bar4* or *bar5*.. do you know people that live here?? Where do they live? If you come one weekend let me know I can try and meet ya out..
I'll take that as a positive response, but I'd like to take this off Facebook and get the number. Not really sure how to do that, I usually get numbers in person because it is so much easier than talking online. I like that her message is long and explains a lot, shows me she is interested. Any suggestions?
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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:24 pm ] |
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Any advice? |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:57 pm ] |
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"If you come one weekend let me know I can try and meet ya out.." That says "Ask me for my number" dummy  "Hey, I'm thinking about heading over to XX. Shoot me your number and if I get to your side of town I will drop you a line and see if you want to tag along for a bit." Peace... |
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| Author: | Bodega [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 2:22 pm ] |
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Something along the lines of what the Crypto said is fine. You're over-thinking things because you don't want to screw it up mate. |
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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 3:53 pm ] |
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I agree, I always tend to overthink things. Crypto, I like your message, but her city is about an hour and a half away from mine. I can't just one day decide to head out there, I would have to find a place to stay and all that. I was thinking about saying something along the lines of not having a place to stay so I hope she has some extra couches. All the major sports teams around here are in her area, which is another reason to visit and then go out to the bars after. Her family lives in my city, and I know she comes and visits them probably once a month. Want to also bring up hanging out in my city when she is back for a weekend. I think I'll just tell her I don't like Facebook chat much and give her my number, but I hate giving my number before getting theirs. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 7:37 pm ] |
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Dude, read your last comment!!! You have answered your own question. I have a feeling this girl is into you and wants you to open up a dialogue...Make it happen my man! Peace... |
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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 5:30 pm ] |
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Wrote a quick message on Facebook and sent it to her the other day, told her to text me instead of Facebook chat. Never heard back. Oh well. Wasn't really having a good day, also tried apologizing to a girl about not inviting her to a concert that I asked her to buy me tickets for (she gets discounted tickets through the college she goes to) and never heard back from her either. Wine tour on Sunday though, with a bunch of college girls! Should make for a very fun time... 
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