Thanks guys, I was kinda frozen but I will follow your advice with getting eeveryone´s phone numbers.
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| Author: | thegamgee [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 7:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | next step help |
So I just entered university and decided I couldn´t be that shy guy again, so I´ve been talking a lot to people, everywhere but I don´t know how to proceed with girls after talking. I don´t know what I should talk about after first subject like "what are you studying?" I can keep the conversation going but I don´t know how to start making things interesting. Should I ask for phones the first time I meet them or should I wait for a second time? Where should I take them for a date? Need all the advise you can give. Thanks. |
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| Author: | BITmixit [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 9:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: next step help |
Quote: So I just entered university and decided I couldn´t be that shy guy again, so I´ve been talking a lot to people, everywhere but I don´t know how to proceed with girls after talking. I don´t know what I should talk about after first subject like "what are you studying?" I can keep the conversation going but I don´t know how to start making things interesting. Should I ask for phones the first time I meet them or should I wait for a second time? Where should I take them for a date?
1. Ask for phones the first time, It will feel weird but everyone will be in "i need friends" mode. With girls at uni if I meet them the first time and they get all flakey about number:Need all the advise you can give. Thanks. Girl: I'm not too sure if I want to give you my number (This could also be a shit test so don't fail it" Me: *Looking her in the eye* Its definitely a good idea for you to put your number in my phone. (Passed shit test and its slightly compliant) *btw if you like this girl instantly send a cheeky text) Example 1 jokey: Hey this is *name* your stunning! love the *feature that she doesn't have* on girls. (This one works because guys at this moment will be being MEGA nice to her to try to get the attention, you want to seem different/putting her down in a fun way) Example 2 standard: Hey this is *name* keep this number, its the most important one you will ever get. (Get a reply, wait a day then open with some flirty shit) Example 3 insult - I've shagged this girl but then again I can get pretty lucky. Me: So whats your number? I always love to get the numbers of the girls with the prettiest smiles. Her: awww thankyou, *gives number* Me instantly texting her: Now smile you twat ;P Her *smiling*: Thats so mean! Me: Yeah but it made you smile though. MY NUMBER ONE ADVICE: DO NOT BE AFRAID TO BE JOKEY/NEG GIRLS, THEY FUCKING LOVE IT. Every girl will get asked the same boring "What do you study, where do you live? How old are you" it just gets boring after a while and you don't stand out. Most people I met at university weren't majorly into dating, I mean girls can get pretty slutty when in an environment where sex every night is pretty standard so you won't need to do major wooing unless you actually really like her. Just do something like this if you want to meet up then neg, push-pull and escalate during it. Also kiss-close first time or move on. You via phone/text/f2f: Hey going to go *ACTIVITY HERE*, Join? if you she says no just leave it. if she says yes then cool. If she takes too long to reply DO NOT change your plans or stall them. This is good for. *You at place* Her: Yeah im up for it, when you going. *call her after 5 minutes* You: Hey slowpoke (other nickname) I'm already there, hurry up and get your ass here or you'll be eating my dust for the rest of your life! Anyway bro, enjoy uni and remember its for fun. A HELL of a lot of ego fuelled people at university DO NOT let them bring you down or spoil your game. I did during my first year and I regret it. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:07 am ] |
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here is practical way, to meet girls and get dates here are some screening points for you, if at one of these points a girl seems unwilling to invest and does not reciprocate and help contribute to the interaction, just leave and find a different girl, screen out as many girls as you can in your spare time to rack up more dates -indicate your interest to the girl, let her know you find her attractive instead of starting an arbitrary reason, let her know that the premisis for the conversation is your attraction and you want to meet her and get to know her, based on your attraction if you can stop her, simply see if she will invest in a conversation so you can quickly screen further for interest, sometimes girls are just busy, rather then dis-interested, but if you are getting the obvious vibes that she just doesn't want to invest, then you can just walk away and approach a new girl that actually wants to invest -chat her up and get to know her, try to find out a few things about her as a person, indicate at some point that you have to leave, but you would like to see her again, find out when and if this is possible ''you seem cool, I'd like to see you again'' ''I like you, we should hang out'' ''when can I see you again'' or what ever variation, there are a million ways to let a girl know you want to meet her again, when she reciprocates an interest in this point, you get her phone number naturally as a way to meet her again, if she tries to challenge you on this, just justfy her compliance with the meetup -touch the girl during the interaction in a meaningful way, either put your hand on her arm or shoulder and give her a compliment, or give her a hug, or hold her hand, or put your arm around her, this will help you tell how interested she is, if she is not ok with this and it freaks her out, chances are she will not be ok with sex, and you might as well just not even waste your time on her -once you have a bunch of phone numbers, follow up on all of them sooner rather then later, preferably that day unless you are busy, just have a nice little rapport building convo for about 10 minutes to an hour (don't take it too much further then that), just let them know it was nice meeting them, and show a little more interest in getting to know them, during this little convo, you want to further estimate interest based on how they are responding to the texts, it should be fairly evident to you if you have alot of numbers, who is being more responsive, and who is being less responsive, be aware so you can prioritize who gets dating priority, as well as see who you like personality wise the best to also help you prioritize, and who is already non responsive or going to be an obvious flake weed them out and organize, and confirm your dates -for your dates, just keep it casual, dinner kind of blows because often girls expect you to pay, just pick something that won't cost too much money like a drink or a coffee, don't let her bring friends, 1 on 1 only or don't meet her, have fun on your dates and try to always at least kiss her on the first date, if that's going really well, you can think of a reason to get her to your house like more drinks, or a movie, or food, if you are having dates past the first date, try to select spots to go on the date close to your house if not just have the date at your house to begin with, try to make sex happen, if you haven't slept with her by the 3rd date, you should probably forget about her, if she flakes you 3x in a row, you should probably forget about her, if a girl seems to be a time waster, then just let her come to you and don't work for it, just forget about her, move on, let her invest in it if it's actually so important to her, actions speak alot louder then words also, any excuse at all, doesn't matter what it is or how legitimate it seems gets counted as a flake, and often if a girl is interested but flaking, she will flake, but offer another specific day for when she is available, there are ways to mitigate this sort of thing, but realistically a girl who is flaking you is probably not worth the effort, way easier to just meet new girls this is more or less enough to get you started, if you are having a problem, first ask yourself is this a re-occuring problem, or am I just being needy and trying to get one specific girl, the answer to most problems is more girls, but if you notice a re-occuring issue that constantly keeps comming up, post it in the sticking points section chiefs-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html this link can also be of use to you |
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| Author: | thegamgee [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 4:00 pm ] |
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Thanks guys, I was kinda frozen but I will follow your advice with getting eeveryone´s phone numbers.
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