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Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Trying to avoid the friendzone
So I'm talking to this girl, and she's basically a "Good girl" so, she's used to a lot of Guys just talking dirty with her and being too flirty so she didn't talk to me at first... But I had to show her that I'm a nice guy, and that she shouldn't be afraid of me lol.

So I'm past that point, we talk now and get on well, but the thing is, I'm just sorta worried about getting in the friend zone with her.. I sorta feel I have a time limit.

So what can I say to her, so that she knows I don't want to be friends, and that I could FLIRT WITH HER, QUALIFY HER AND TEASE HER. What's the best way to do these things?
Author:  clearspeak [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 2:17 am ]
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Try using the question game. When you're with her say it's a fun game where you just alternate questions. And then as you go on start asking a little more intimate, flirty questions. Also include a little more touching gradually.
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 4:08 am ]
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Clear speak,

Could you go into more detail on how to do this?

What I was just gonna do is, use Neil Straus' method and joke about getting married, then divorced, than try and qualify her. Things like that?
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 4:42 am ]
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Be a bit cheeky with her a couple of times, make her laugh, and also, show her that you have some balls by doing something ballsy.
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 5:15 am ]
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Don't give her the option, show your interest and always be sexual. Don't accept a friendship, if she tries to force it on you, then simply eject. If it does not exist in your reality, then it can never happen.
Author:  longtin [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 5:09 pm ]
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So you are comfy telling us wat u want n dont want..i think u shuld tell that to her...and yes the question is..does she wanna sleep with u ??...dont let any woman dictate the terms of how shes gonna be in ur life...its cheating..if u ask me n unfair if she likes u nall but still thinks u ar unfuckable...thats totally 1 sided...be open with her...n just chip it in see her reaction n then plan ur next move
Author:  clearspeak [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:20 pm ]
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Clear speak,

Could you go into more detail on how to do this?

What I was just gonna do is, use Neil Straus' method and joke about getting married, then divorced, than try and qualify her. Things like that?
It couldn't be more simple. You just say "Hey wanna play a game?" She says yes. Then you say "OK it's a simple game called the Question Game. All it is is I ask you a question and then you ask me one and we go back and forth." That's the basics. Then you can spice it up however you want with additional rules. Tell her what makes it fun is being creative with the questions.

Then you can role model for her by asking fun and interesting questions yourself. Ask where she wants to travel most in the world. Ask curious things like if she could be anyone else on earth who would it be.

But the nice thing is as the game goes on you can ask a little more intimate questions "What's the wildest thing you've ever done?" "What's the craziest place you've made out with someone?"

Then you can get a little more sexual with it too.
Author:  IwantEasyLove [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 1:28 am ]
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i dont like how you said you're a nice guy, like you're trying to prove your better than those other guys
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 4:52 am ]
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By "Nice guy" I just mean, someone who's not overally sexual and just wants her for her body. Now I'm going to start introducing the flirting aspect to it.

Like so:

Me: I just noticed something about you (Really good transition)
Her: What?
Me: Your vocabulary is good (or) you seem really friendly - I like that/that's surprising
Her: Blah blah
Me: Tell me 3 things about you that would make me want to know you better

So that's my plan, it seems pretty logical and consistent with Pu
Author:  trick182 [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:00 am ]
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recently ive been in the same situation and this is how ive successfully avoided the friend zone

1.trust-let her trust you to an extent because if she has issues, you don't want to be her therapist=friend zone. but also tell her not too get too trustworthy with you because too much trust leads to friend zone.

2. Kino!-try to playfully touch her such as a lite shrug to the shoulder,etc. use an excuse as a way to touch her like looking at her nails and then grabbing her hand or if she does something smart,flirty, or impressive jokingly put your arms around her and be like "way too go or something like that. but dont overdo it if not shell be creeped out. if she responds well to your kino like if she shrugs you back or something she is interested/ioi. also teasing litely is good too.

3.eye contact-when she is talking make eye contact. if she looks at you make sure you dont brake it. but dont look at her like you just saw a ufo, be cool and make sure to have a good smile and see through her.

4.dominance-their are several ways to do this. if you are taking her out to lunch, park, party, etc. you dont ask for her opinion like "are you free later?". you say something like "hey im taking you out for pizza (or any other thing)" or a suggestion like"(somebody) is having a party later, you should come by." also, since you said there are alot of other guys around her talking dirty to her, you should dlv them like for example mick says blah blah blah to HB, you respond somewhere along the lines of "ok that was lovely" sarcastically and if you can isolate her, do it. and probably respond like "haha wow i have my share of dirty thoughts but he surely has some issues haha." also dont be all up in her face every moment because it just shows your desperate. try to look busy and hang around other people and also if you can bring her into your circle of people then do it. also be cocky funny, it really shows you stand out and expresses your confidence.

i also tried this this role playing method in the forum like if she does a number of cool things that are impressive you say something like " wow, if you do one more cool thing you get to be my gf for 2 minutes with the one the only almighty(your name)" in a cocky funny way.

i hope this advice helps. keep it up homie. :D
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