Not sure which board I should post this in, so General Questions it is!
I spoke to an HB9 I don't know very well (who normally doesn't reply but I don't call that defeat, I'll admit the messages aren't particularly interesting) on facebook yesterday, and today she came into my shop with her friend. Unfortunately this was my last day off, I only know she came in because I popped in to see my boss, and he told me.
Call me AFC for this approach but I'm pretty sure I tried flirting with her before in real life and crashed and burnt. I wasn't flirting here though. She makes statuses about wanting an attractive man/being lonely most Sundays.
Here's the conversation:
Me: Howdy. You make statuses with a similar feel pretty much every Sunday!
HB9: Haha
Me: ..and I know why
HB9: Go on
Me: Well it doesn't take a genius to see that you're lonely
Me: And I'm assuming you go out most saturdays, and when you don't have someone to give you cuddles through the hangover it gets ya down. Tell me I'm wrong!
HB9: Haha true
Me: Damn I'm good
Ever considered that if you connected with people a little more you wouldn't feel so lonely?
HB9: I feel lonely 1 day a week. I think I'm doing fine.
Connected with people meaning??
Me: Yeah that sounds familiar. Meaning talking, interacting, meeting up with people that aren't your friends
HB9: What is that going to do??
Me: Make you feel less lonely, duh!
HB9: Hanging out with people I don't know??
Me: New people, yes!
Me: Thats exactly what helped me with my sunday blues
And then today she shows up. I work in a goldshop. She came and sold some. She knows I work there since she's been in once before. My question is this. Do I take this as some sort of IOI?
I know I haven't really flirted but I wonder if on some level I sparked some interest in her, what dyou guys think? Also any advice on what to do now? All comments welcome