So, i met this girl in the gym, my friend R*** introduce her to me & my other friend B***. Apparently she's in vacation, and looking for friend. Anyway, I tried to keep it cool, she initiates most of the convo (mostly typical question like: where you go to school, what you do after gym) , i pretty much ignoring her unless she initiates the convo (i tried to make myself look uninterested to her), then she ask my number, so i gave her. After the gym she text me
Her: (some messaging app invitation)
Her: hi, what you doin?, do you use wats**p (some messaging app)
Me (10 min): just downloaded it, going to take a shower
Her (1 min): ok, ttyl. Lets talk on wats**p later, Sorry for bothering you
Me, to her wats**p (3 min) : right
Her (25 min): hi, right what?
Me (35 min): text you thru wats**p, so youre in college?
Her (20 min): yes, what you doin? im trying to sleep, but cant (its, 1pm)
Me (15 min): ha, its noon. Cleaning my apartment (we live in the apartment)
Her (3h): hei, i finnaly able to sleep, what you doin? wanna go to the pool?, im going to the pool, you can join if you want, im with my friend
Me (30min): im not done yet -__-“ (i put that face thing -__-“)
Her (40min): ok
Me (10min): finnaly done
Her (5min): yaay, haha, took soo long, im talking with **** (the friend that introduce her to me)
-from here on the message timing is a bit messed up-
Me: still at the pool?
Her (10min): yup, just hangin out hehe
Me:k, guess ill get something to eat (i start to really bitching from now)
Her (5min): oh yea? Where?
Me: no idea -__-
Her(10min): -_- where’s B***?, wanna eat at D***? (cafee by the pool)
Me: good idea, might as well jump in the pool
Her(5min): haha, so how about it?
Me: how about what?
Her: so where you going to eat?
Me: D***, i wanna swim
Her: wanna swim? Ok, no problem, since i haven’t take a shower yet, R*** just gone home
Me: (stupid joke about the shower thing, you dont even wanna know, its not even a joke)
Her:i have other friend, ill introduce you, no duece24 (regarding the joke)
Me: then?
her (5min): i take a shower after swimming, if youre going too, come on, if youre not then im going to take a shower
her: so, youre coming or not?
Me: im coming, but if you finished its ok
Her: ok, so what time youre coming?
Me: now, you finished?
Her: k, not yet, ill swim too, i have other friend here, if im alone im going to be sad haha
Me:k
So at the pool, i meet her friend, its a guy. But it doesn’t look like they have any kind of relationship other than friend (didn’t see sign hes interested in her, or the other way). So we talked, generic stuffs. Then we swim, then we finish and she goes to take a shower for a few. Apparently theyre sort of waiting for some other guy (a friend). But then the other guy needs go go somewhere but he will come back. So we waited, while i eat and she plays with her phone, we talked. So, apparently she on vacation here and looking for friend, and that she hesitated to greet me at first cos she don’t want me to get the wrong idea. She kinda ask some guy’s phone number and.. she dint really said it, but i think this guy get “then wrong idea” (hes most likely burnt). and she’s having problem with her bf, and haven’t talk in a while, then she ask about my gf, i said i don’t have any (ha), so anyway we head back (split the bill). Then she text me again saying thank, then ask what im going to do, i just reply shortly, didn’t ask back. Then she text goodnight.
Well i messed up big time... i think..
I think she’s lonely and bored, cos of the bf problem. And i think she actually looking for a gay friend or some rebound guy
So, what do you guys think? My chances? What should i do?
Sorry for the long post guys