OK so been texting a girl last night but after last text I havent heard from her for a while
The thread and timings are below - the words I chose had no particular meaning, I just went with things that were around me at the time (I was eating a dessert, there was an article on medieval royality in a paper and they were wearing velvet and i was watching an action movie on TV with lots of explosions)
Me:Hi Hilary, was nice to meet you yesterday, I enjoyed the banter, makes a change from most commuters
Her (6 hours later): Hey, haha yea it was good to break the monotomy of silence
how are you today? Me (2 hours later): Doing good and feeling playful
Whats the first thing you think of when you hear the word .... dessert Her (2 minutes later): Hmm - tasty
Me (20 minutes later): Guessing you have a sweet tooth
You can do better than that though, try to be more descriptive. OK next word ... midnight Her (20 mins later): Haha correct :p velvety
Me (10 minutes later): Velvety - interesting, that has meaning in our dreams. Last one & then ill let you fire one back at me, only one though so make it good
Last word is .... explosiveThats it, heard nowt since about 9.50pm last night. So I know that I made a mistake in sending one message back too quickly - didn't mean to do it was just automatic for some reason. Showed the text stream to a female friend of mine and she asked what the meaning of velvet was in our dreams - it represents sensuality apparently (didnt know this when i chose the word). My friend said she thinks I scared her off as it is too close to sex. Am wondering if when I said it means something in our dreams she might have gone and looked it up online and been scared off.
So what do people think, have I fucked this one up royally or am I just being impatient, if I have ballsed up what should be my next move - I might as well take the opportunity to try and salvage it, if nothing comes of it at least ill get experience.
don't worry i'm coming on the course with you it seems like something fun to do"