Quote: Can/should I assume that for the pub a night game is still applicable? you can go approach a girl when ever you want, in what ever situation you want, there are no rules, if you got the balls to do it, and know how you want to do it, it can be done
Quote: What about on the streets, is direct the best approach? I have watched a few videos of Sasha and just running up to women saying 'i just saw you from over the road and had to come and talk to you' just seems a bit lame really - but maybe that is a preconception I need to get rid of
there is no ''best approach'' there is simply the approach that you like the best, if you don't like approaching like sasha, then don't be a sasha imatator, what is your ideal approach? and have you field tested it?
now that ^ is a good question you should be asking yourself instead of ''what is the right way?''
what is your way? and are you happy with the results it gets you?
Quote: And on public transport? The bonus is of course they cant run away but the down side is it is tough for you to do the same and if it clearly isnt going to work it can be a bit, well awkward really.
I appreciate that you need to be flexible but I could do with some pointers on where maybe to start for these situations I tend to find myself in.
on buses, it is also your choice, if you can deal with getting rejected and sitting there for 10 minutes around the person who ignored you / rejected you, then do it that way, if you care, then be more social about it and less to the point, or you can also, get to the point but do so closer to the stop you get off on
also, during the day, and night, opener etc. is subjective to your taste, there are a million and one ways to show a girl you like her, how you want to express your intentions and frame an inteaction should be based on personal style and preference, if you can communicate effectively your intentions through your own frame, then opener is fairly irrelivant, you either have the communication skills, or you don't, there is nothing anyone can tell you that is ''the best way'' if you suck shit, you will do poorly, if you are awesome, you will do awesome, the ''method'' has little to do with it, it is your execution, cotext of the interaction, rather then content, hi works just as well as, hey you're cute, oh wow, let me ask you something, works just as well as yo what's up, it's how you follow up and who you are and how you communicate that is important, how girls react to certain things when you have no contingencies is so irrelivant if you are not already familiar with their patterns of behavior then it's useless to use someone elses routine
pick something for yourself that you think would be awesome to say/do to pick a girl up, go field test it on 30 girls, pay attention to what happens, try to learn from it, what was negative, what was positive, how could you make it better?
and keep practising, keep going out regularily, if you suck now and you don't change, you will suck later too, cause you didn't change, challenge yourself to improve and change your habits to change your results, if you don't go out and approach now, and you don't start now, you probably won't go out and approach later, or start later, how quickly not now becomes never
Quote: Thats all well and good but Im not convinced that would work on a busy train really. Nice idea though
who cares what you are convinced of, what matters is what happens when you have tried it, have you tried what he suggested enough times to actually know if it works or not? probably not
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but the down side is it is tough for you to do the same and if it clearly isnt going to work it can be a bit, well awkward really.