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Author:  xXFrenchXx [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 2:51 am ]
Post subject:  "Softcore" Sarging
So, I am fairly new to the world of pick-up-artists and had a few questions for everybody.

I am on my last year of high-school and our homecoming game is coming up this next Friday. I'd like to be able to develop my social skills and pick-up (a lot of the students go just to hang out), but I have a few hindrances.

I don't plan on trying to have sex or make-out with any of the girls that I will be meeting there (hence "softcore" sarging). I mainly want to focus on just getting phone numbers and kisses since I know how trashy it is to make-out with someone else in public. My problem, though, is that the only routine I really know is Mystery's Method. Is there a way for me to change up his method to work better, should I use a different method, or just not bother with any methods in this situation?

Also, I have some other general questions;

I know disinterest is a big key to Mystery's technique, but how far do I go with it? Do I want to let my target be included in my openers (like getting her to smell cologne off my wrists in the Cologne Opener) and let her participate in my DHV's (I do magic tricks that involve the spectators helping)?

If I approach a group, how can I get the target to separate from the crowd so I can talk to her one-on-one without making it awkward for everyone else while not looking/sounding like a creep?

These are my biggest questions. I am confident enough to open up to a crowd and to talk to women, but I just need to clear up some confusion in my technique.
Author:  Ezo [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 3:32 pm ]
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You can use whatever method you want man.

If you are using the MM, you dont have to go all the way, feel free to leave a set at any time you like.

I disagree with your opinion about trashy btw, it isnt trashy, people do it all the time.
Author:  Body Language [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 4:40 pm ]
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I agree with TonyKing the most important thing is to have fun, if your up tight and too focused on a goal then your going to blow it so just enjoy the moment.

I am reading a book right now called How To Shine by Simon Hartley, its about people at the top of their game from squash number ones to coffee making champions. They all share a similar trait in their approach, they don't think about the end goal, they know what they want but to them its more about the moment. There is also some stuff in there about failure being a high achievers best friend but that is not really applicable here but never the less relevant to the world of PU. I would recommend it :D

Oh and as far as making out in public goes, I don't think that shit is cool, DHV by making a group laugh hysterically or making a girl do a twirl but kissing, blah!

Body Language
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