met a girl a few days ago, she was in the park with her friend. her friend was sunbathing while she was sitting in the shade. very sexy - HB 8.5 with no makeup- long natural blonde hair, greenish blue eyes, freckles, I would say she's 19 or 20 years old. anyways. asked her why she was sitting in the shade - laughed and said she can't tan, she only burns. me too, I said. well we chatted for a while. i haven't been looking for just lays - to be honest ive been getting lonely, as cheesy at is sounds, i want to get to that point in my life where i have a girl living in my house to come home to after a long day of work, someone who will smile at me, ask me how my day was, and all that cheesy stuff. so i didnt come across as very sexual. i am at a different stage of my life and not looking for the same thing i was looking for when i was in my 20s. asked for her number, she gave it to me. told her i'd like to do something together. she said straight up, 'you can take me out for dinner, but i'm not going to sleep with you.' ouch haha. she has a bit of a bitchy and snobby look to her, and for some reason girls like that are my weakness. theyre my favorites. well i told her im not going to take you out for dinner, we can go out for ice cream though. she told me that she likes older guys. she asked for my number too and put it in her phone. we chatted for a bit before i left, but like i said i wasnt too sexual, and worried all the chit chatting would lessen attraction and possibly make her not want me. well she texted me later saying, hey how are you. we chatted a bit. eventually she asked 'want to know a secret about me?' I said sure and she didn't reply until today. I wondered a little what happened but I assumed I had screwed up and done too much chitchat which killed the attraction. but she did reply today with 'ive never had an orgasm before' and a blushing face.
so now I'm trying to figure this girl out. why hasnt she had an orgasm? is she tense and had trouble relaxing? has she only been with guys who didnt know what they were doing? is she sexually frigid? another point to consider is that a friend of mine works at the same place as her father, and he's a really nervous guy with submissive body language - blinks a lot, won't make eye contact with people, etc. wondering how this could affect her personality.
like i said im looking for long term things now rather than just using girls for sex. would love to give her her first orgasm the first time i fuck her and make her mine. i consider this girl worth a bit of extra effort than usual as she's a natural blonde which is my weakness (especially if the carpet matches the drapes) and they are statistically rare.
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Be dominant, don't take her shit, be nice and funny, and just have a good time when you take her out. Know what you want and go for it and be unapologetic about it. Then make your moves.