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| Author: | chvynva916 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 1:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Critique/Review My Recent Relationship |
So looking for advice on a recent relationship end and whether I ended it alpha or AFC. Was dating this girl for about 2 months. Unbelievably hot, very nice, but very shy. First month was ok: her shyness was a bit awkward, but she's gorgeous, nice, and sex was good. Second month, I must have given off some beta vibes, because over about three weeks she stopped coming over as much, stopped texting/calling back frequently, and sex stopped. After about three weeks of this, I told her this wasn't what I was looking for and ended it. Now I text, she'll text back, and I won't text back. Assume I want to keep her interested for now or even for a possible continued relationship. Questions: (1) - Should I have ended it as I did, or was that a weak move, less preferable than, say, just becoming scarce; (2) - At this point, to preserve the chance of something casual or even a relationship, what are my best moves? Not too strung up on this girl, though she was nice and insanely hot, but more trying to get some feedback for educational purposes. |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 3:11 am ] |
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1) You absolutely should have ended it. You weren't getting what you wanted anymore and, in my opinion, ending a relationship is never easy. It takes a lot of mental strength to be able to break it off. Good for you. The problem is, you wouldn't have made this thread if you didn't want her back. Similarly, you're second-guessing your decision. Don't do that. Remember, you weren't getting what you wanted, so what makes you think she'll start giving it to you if you try to rekindle things? 2) Don't play games like that with texting. If you want her back, go a few weeks with no contact at all. This will give you time to prepare yourself mentally, and also to determine if you really want her back or not. At that point, get in touch with her and see if she wants to get lunch or coffee with you. Don't mention getting back together at any point; just start fresh from there and see what happens. |
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| Author: | chvynva916 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 3:19 am ] |
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Much appreciated Snarg. I think you're spot on. Honestly, kind of knew that deep down but wanted to bounce it around and get some feedback. Again, really appreciate the reply. |
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