PUA Forum :: Was this a big IOI?

when you wanna bang a co-worker, the process is fairly easy

-ask girl on a ''date'' and use the word ''date'', this will screen her for interest/dis-interest, this is a very low level of compliance to reach for a girl that knows she has to see you again, and even a girl who is dis-interested will potentially say yes and go on a date for fun

not only does this screen, but it gives you a passive acceptance to a sexual frame (passive permission from her to escalate, without running the risk of an awkward situation/problem at work revolving around hitting on co-workers)

-once on date, have a good time, charm her up good, pick a spot close to your place, invite her back home for a drink at the end of the date (second screener)

if she comes back, make out with her and go for the gold, if she doesn't screen to go to your house, simply make your goal of the night to make the envening better for the both of you, kiss her and try to end the night on a high note, tell her you had a great time and you'd like to see her again

-if the girl shows interest in you for going on a date, but starts flaking/canceling or trys to tell you about how much she likes you but can't, don't start taking that as your cue to hit on her hardcore at work, just maintain your frame that you are interested in her while being professional and normal, being the same guy you were before you asked her out, rather then the new creepy hit on you try to escalate on you at work guy, just be patient, and if she does like you, she will eventually go out with you, just leave the offer on the table and don't press her to hard or start acting weird and needy as if she ''has to do it'', she doesn't have to do anything, don't get all butthurt and impatient if she has some other guy and doesn't want to tell you about it and it is preventing her from going out with you, just meet other girls outside of work when you see a flake to keep you busy so that your mind does not focus on something that doesn't need focus

keep shit at your job professional, save the macking and gaming and charming etc. for outside the office

no point in judging these stupid hair twirls and preens, and eye contact, and her having a tamagotchi phone, etc. it's a good way to look for approach invites, but realistically it can mean something, and it can also mean fuck all, test compliance rather then looking for IOI's, if you don't know if a girl is interested, see if she walk talk to you, let you touch her, and if she will go out and be alone with you 1 on 1, if she meets that criteria then she has some good potential

GOOD LUCK

Author:	random884 [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:	Was this a big IOI?
First of all.. I know about dating coworkers can end pretty badly but she is leaving this job in one week for a another job.. Soo i don't have to worry about losing my job,etc.. over this... So few days ago.. A coworker and i had to drop off/hand out tons of flyers to random people and business.. While she was driving and waiting for me to come back.. She keeps on putting her cross necklace in her mouth and sometimes her keychain rubber thing in her mouth.. When ever she was was talking to me.. I don't know if she was being nice or just flirting, but she ask me what i was doing this weekend first.. I told her i was just working and have a family deal on sunday.. I asked her what she was doing for this weekend.. She said "we"(her bbf(roommate) and her bff boyfriend) are going to a lake and try to rent a boat.. She nag me few times like.. Me wanting this pink crappy house and things like that.. Do you guys think she was flirting with me or just being super nice??

Author:	lor0001 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 12:05 am ]
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I think she was just talking to you. The way she kept putting her rubber keychain thingy in her mouth would make me wonder if she does E...but without some other clustered iois I don't think it was her trying to flirt.

Author:	VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 1:01 am ]
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She asked you what you were doing because she was going to invite you out to the lake if you didn't have plans. Invite her out somewhere next week.

Author:	WhiteRabbit55 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 1:32 am ]
Post subject:	could be she was nervous
putting the necklace in her mouth could be a sign of her being nervous. woman give off certain body language that should tell you what shes thinking.

Author:	MrBreeze [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 2:09 am ]
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Quote: She asked you what you were doing because she was going to invite you out to the lake if you didn't have plans. Invite her out somewhere next week. I agree with this... or at least if you like her thats an opening enough to swing into action.

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Author:	random884 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 2:58 am ]
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Well thanks for all the replys... More info about what i'm doing this weekend.. We were in truck with each other for like two hours straight. So I'm thinking its more of small talk then flirting kinda.. Before she asked me what i was doing for this weekend. She said she didn't know it was laborday weekend untill weds.. Then she asked me what i was doing for the weekend.. Like a month ago.. She told me that i can come over to her house during the day..Soo i don't have to stay at work for 12 hours per day.. Since i live like 18 miles away from my workplace... Was this a another IOI or just being friendly??

Author:	WhiteRabbit55 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 3:46 am ]
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it sounds like its another IOI than her being nice.

Author:	pumpington [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 7:06 am ]
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when you wanna bang a co-worker, the process is fairly easy -ask girl on a ''date'' and use the word ''date'', this will screen her for interest/dis-interest, this is a very low level of compliance to reach for a girl that knows she has to see you again, and even a girl who is dis-interested will potentially say yes and go on a date for fun not only does this screen, but it gives you a passive acceptance to a sexual frame (passive permission from her to escalate, without running the risk of an awkward situation/problem at work revolving around hitting on co-workers) -once on date, have a good time, charm her up good, pick a spot close to your place, invite her back home for a drink at the end of the date (second screener) if she comes back, make out with her and go for the gold, if she doesn't screen to go to your house, simply make your goal of the night to make the envening better for the both of you, kiss her and try to end the night on a high note, tell her you had a great time and you'd like to see her again -if the girl shows interest in you for going on a date, but starts flaking/canceling or trys to tell you about how much she likes you but can't, don't start taking that as your cue to hit on her hardcore at work, just maintain your frame that you are interested in her while being professional and normal, being the same guy you were before you asked her out, rather then the new creepy hit on you try to escalate on you at work guy, just be patient, and if she does like you, she will eventually go out with you, just leave the offer on the table and don't press her to hard or start acting weird and needy as if she ''has to do it'', she doesn't have to do anything, don't get all butthurt and impatient if she has some other guy and doesn't want to tell you about it and it is preventing her from going out with you, just meet other girls outside of work when you see a flake to keep you busy so that your mind does not focus on something that doesn't need focus keep shit at your job professional, save the macking and gaming and charming etc. for outside the office no point in judging these stupid hair twirls and preens, and eye contact, and her having a tamagotchi phone, etc. it's a good way to look for approach invites, but realistically it can mean something, and it can also mean fuck all, test compliance rather then looking for IOI's, if you don't know if a girl is interested, see if she walk talk to you, let you touch her, and if she will go out and be alone with you 1 on 1, if she meets that criteria then she has some good potential GOOD LUCK

Author:	random884 [ Sun Sep 02, 2012 11:04 pm ]
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Quote: when you wanna bang a co-worker, the process is fairly easy -ask girl on a ''date'' and use the word ''date'', this will screen her for interest/dis-interest, this is a very low level of compliance to reach for a girl that knows she has to see you again, and even a girl who is dis-interested will potentially say yes and go on a date for fun not only does this screen, but it gives you a passive acceptance to a sexual frame (passive permission from her to escalate, without running the risk of an awkward situation/problem at work revolving around hitting on co-workers) -once on date, have a good time, charm her up good, pick a spot close to your place, invite her back home for a drink at the end of the date (second screener) if she comes back, make out with her and go for the gold, if she doesn't screen to go to your house, simply make your goal of the night to make the envening better for the both of you, kiss her and try to end the night on a high note, tell her you had a great time and you'd like to see her again -if the girl shows interest in you for going on a date, but starts flaking/canceling or trys to tell you about how much she likes you but can't, don't start taking that as your cue to hit on her hardcore at work, just maintain your frame that you are interested in her while being professional and normal, being the same guy you were before you asked her out, rather then the new creepy hit on you try to escalate on you at work guy, just be patient, and if she does like you, she will eventually go out with you, just leave the offer on the table and don't press her to hard or start acting weird and needy as if she ''has to do it'', she doesn't have to do anything, don't get all butthurt and impatient if she has some other guy and doesn't want to tell you about it and it is preventing her from going out with you, just meet other girls outside of work when you see a flake to keep you busy so that your mind does not focus on something that doesn't need focus keep shit at your job professional, save the macking and gaming and charming etc. for outside the office no point in judging these stupid hair twirls and preens, and eye contact, and her having a tamagotchi phone, etc. it's a good way to look for approach invites, but realistically it can mean something, and it can also mean fuck all, test compliance rather then looking for IOI's, if you don't know if a girl is interested, see if she walk talk to you, let you touch her, and if she will go out and be alone with you 1 on 1, if she meets that criteria then she has some good potential GOOD LUCK Well thank you..

Author:	detox75 [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 12:32 am ]
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Quote: I know about dating coworkers can end pretty badly AFC - will bang co-workers because he is desperate enough not to care Some Game Guy- wont bang co-workers because it creates an akward situation PUA- Bangs co-workers because he doesn't give a fuck As to your "does she like me?" question. No one can tell from what you have written here. As always, I advise you not be a pussy and assume she is interested until she shows she is not.

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