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| Author: | Marino7810 [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 12:13 am ] |
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Ok, I need some ideas on how I can pull this girl in my math class, I'm a senior in high school and I have social status + Good looks, so that isnt a problem. Anyways there is no competition in this classroom as a matter of fact, its a small class but there is 1 kid who talks to her in there but hes a pssy so im not worried about him although he kinda messes up my flow just a bit. Anyways about the girl she is a fine ass Mexican chick, she sorta knows me but we dont really talk much, and I find it hard to start a conversation with her at times cause A.) the class is super boring, no one talks, so it feels weird. B.) Sometimes I just dont know what to say. Tips or strategies on how to approach this. And any openers ideas would be appreciated as well. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 1:10 am ] |
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Don't be afraid of failing. You want to fail so you can learn. Think of a plan then try it out. The worst thing that can happen is she doesn't like you. If you succeed you have a dime you can take to prom. If it doesn't work out then you'll have confidence approaching the next dime. However, do take the shot. |
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| Author: | Marino7810 [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 1:24 am ] |
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Quote: Don't be afraid of failing. You want to fail so you can learn. Think of a plan then try it out. The worst thing that can happen is she doesn't like you. If you succeed you have a dime you can take to prom. If it doesn't work out then you'll have confidence approaching the next dime. However, do take the shot. I am going to take the shot, honestly I have no fear of rejection I try to be myself as much as possible, idk I just want to take a good approach for this and make her like me, but I will try thats a guarantee lol
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 3:11 am ] |
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Tell me what you have been thinking about doing? |
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| Author: | Marino7810 [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 3:42 am ] |
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Quote: Tell me what you have been thinking about doing? At the moment I have nothing lol thats why I put up this thread. But about a week ago it was just wait for the right moment and talk to her about class or some shit which I did, but its always cut short cause the fucking teacher is always talking and telling me to shut up. But idk how else to initiate something with her other than that way and I've already used it so itd be repetitive if I tried again. I mean I'm naturally funny and sincerely not nervous about what other people think of me however I'm just finding it hard to make conversation with this girl.
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| Author: | Zolstice [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 3:49 am ] |
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There is never a right moment, when I was a kid, I always dreamed of being assigned seats next to my crush so I can talk to her. Guess what, it never happened, not because God hates me but because you can't just hope for gold to rain out from the sky. Take control of what you can do, which is talk to her. Obviously she's making you anxious because she is "the one" for you at the moment, well don't even think that, she is just like any other girl in the class until she is your girlfriend. |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 4:08 am ] |
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The three most important qualities to any relationship are respect, trust, and pleasure. Respect is thinking of each other as valuable and treating each other as valuable. Trust behaving consistently with each other so you know what to expect from each other. Pleasure is being fun and enjoyable to be around. Alot is made about status in PUA methods, but status is usually the source of most crushes becuase people have this dreamy image of someone in their heads. This dreamy image gives them a good feeling and that good feeling attracts you. Crushes don't last. Even if you date this girl and you see she has some terrible faults you're value of her will drop and how much you are attracted to her will drop too. With this in mind, I would not try any game with her that you can't maintain indefinitely because she's someone you will see all the time. I would recommend everytime you talk to her for it to be pleasant, always pleasant. Nice guys don't finish last; guys that aren't nice enough finish last. Always behave consistently with her this will remove any anxiety or fear she might have about you. Always aim to be respected when you are around her; this is very important until you've made a good impression. You should aim to think about what to say. A man should have a plan. I would think about interesting things to talk to her about. Talk about things that show your value. Think of some funny lines to use, think of jokes. Asks her questions to figure out what she likes and dislikes; you're trying to listen to how she feels about things. The most powerful tool I can give you is learning how to fortify someone's insecurities; this will make you priceless to a person. However, you have to really listen. For instance. you can compliment a person all day, but if its about something they are secure in they will not care to much. But, if someone feels dumb, ugly, weird, or merely lacks the confidence to do something they really want to do...a compliment in that area or a word of encouragement will go a very long way. It't like giving someone a hug when they are hurt; it means alot. |
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