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| Author: | CountRedRover [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 4:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | college game going no where!! |
Just transferred to a 4 year college and I've made a lot of approaches using "natural game" and well, regular game, but I'm not getting any where! Went from being the "player" at home to the "no one" at college. few things I've done so far: -Knocked on girls dorms "hey.. (smile)(superman stance) we're new here... wanna grab lunch with us".. (they say they've already gotten lunch or are goin later) maybe i should add in a curiosity hook in there? -sat next to chicks at lunch used DHV story on how i saw someone kick a helpless cat while i was off campus and how i pushed them away and took the cat back home to its owner... than i asked them about themselves to get them to invest more into me, I've even used some canned push/pull lines.... I get the number, but I'm not getting many IOIs or many texts back. I don't know what I'm doing wrong here. I think its because they see me as an option, I have no clue. But anyone who thinks they can help would be great. Mentor even. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 4:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: college game going no where!! |
Quote: -Knocked on girls dorms "hey.. (smile)(superman stance) we're new here... wanna grab lunch with us".. (they say they've already gotten lunch or are goin later) maybe i should add in a curiosity hook in there? |
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| Author: | Kirin [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 5:42 pm ] |
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If you're dorming, you're living in a fuckfest. I can sort of see where you're going if you were a commuter to school but if you live in the dorms come on!! Throw away your 'game' mentality and just meet new people. Say you have 2hours before class and see if people want to hang out. It doesn't necessarily have to be girls. Establish people you're cool with to establish an attractive college life. When I walk around on campus, I shake hands/hug at least 1-2 people that I know, on a good day I'll be talking/walking with someone and 3-4 friends would say hi. That might take over a year to develop but it's worth it because when girls see you know what in their head is "everyone", you are dhving just by walking around and literally doing nothing. |
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| Author: | junior24 [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 10:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: college game going no where!! |
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-Knocked on girls dorms
Your coming off to strong. Randomly asking a girl for lunch will work maybe 5% of the time. She doesn't know you, even if you are both new, she still doesn't know your name or anything. Why not knock and ask to borrow a stapler or something."hey.. (smile)(superman stance) we're new here... wanna grab lunch with us".. (they say they've already gotten lunch or are goin later) maybe i should add in a curiosity hook in there? -sat next to chicks at lunch used DHV story on how i saw someone kick a helpless cat while i was off campus and how i pushed them away and took the cat back home to its owner... than i asked them about themselves to get them to invest more into me, I've even used some canned push/pull lines.... I get the number, but I'm not getting many IOIs or many texts back. I don't know what I'm doing wrong here. I think its because they see me as an option, I have no clue. But anyone who thinks they can help would be great. Mentor even. You: Hey, by any chance do you have a stapler, I need to hand in an assignment today and can't find one anywhere. Her: Yeah sure, it's right over here. You: Oh perfect, I'm "your name" by the way, I'm new here and living down the hall in ###. Her: I'm "her name", your new where are you from? You: Blah blah blah Her: Blah blah blah You: You know what, haven't grabbed lunch all day so I'm going to head out. Want to come? Her: Yes or no... See how she gets to know your name, where you live, where your from, etc. etc. from starting with something simple. It seems a lot better to me at least then just saying: "HEY IM NEW, WANNA GRAB LUNCH! (SUPERMAN STANCE)" As for your second attempt story, I think it was kind of random and corny. But I don't really have enough information to declare that. You should have used a story relating to the cafeteria at lunch. You: I hope you didn't buy that sandwich from the cafeteria Her: Yeah I did, why? You: Ohh well the other day I ordered a sub and there was a girl in the back working sneezing everywhere! Her: EWW really? From what I can tell in your post, your approaches need some improvement. They both seemed too random and corny. Build up. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 10:30 am ] |
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instead of trying to do XYZ to get laid, just go up and hit on girls for fun, no more XYZ, stay in set until they either sleep with you, or have to go, don't try to ''get anything'', try to give instead, give them a fun time, tell them what you think they are like, let them tell you about themselves, give them a kiss on the lips, give them a reason to go to your house as you take them there, give her a make out, give her a good finger banging, give her the fuck of her life, don't ask her for anything or try to get anything from her, assume she wants it from you, and give it and if you are playing a huge phone numbers game then ask them out after talking a bit, discuss your logistics, and screen her out for if she would even be fun to go on a date with, if she isn't screening well, don't waste your time, just move on, the more numbers in a day the better if that is your only goal also, instead of opening how ever you are opening, walk up, explain why you are talking to them and be absolutely HONEST, no lies, no dhv stories, no incongruent shit, don't say weird shit that isn't related to the conversation, and don't tell a bunch of lies to make you look good, just be completely straight forward about what you want, and what you are doing, show genuine interest in her as a person, chat her up, get to know her, flirt with her by hitting on her, not by bragging with gay stories about cats, if you are going to use stories, at least wait until she is invested in a convo with you and actually gives a shit, and make sure the story is actually cool to listen to if you can, make it all about her, and not about you, hit on her, she should be well aware you have a penis and would enjoy placing it inside of her, but she should know this because you are giving her your approval, rather then seeking hers, it should just be assumed she already likes you GOOD LUCK |
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