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Author:  aschillascanbe [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  newbie goin in

hi guys, I'm 21 and I fucking suck at this.

I only had one girlfriend(when I was 16) in my entire life. Ravaged by acne shortly after, serious self-esteem problems started to grow. At that stage, I tried to go for a couple of girls like a true AFC and failed. In my mind, it always relate back to acne. From what I heard then, the acne would be gone sooner or later but eventually I'm left with acne scars. That leads to a point in my life where I thought all hope is gone. I was truly devastated. However, I decided to get over it and start living life again.

After serving the army(2 years compulsory), I went back to school in April. My mission was to go for the hottest girls(about 5) in my class. Managed to talk all of them and found out that 3 of them are attached. I went out with 1 but it didn't go so well. Things are still unclear between me and her. Well, I recently asked her out again but she hasn't replied, although the texting went pretty well(that's why I asked a 2nd time). Ok, let's not get into that and assume it's already over. Now that I'm done with this class, my plan is to move on to another class and also random girls in the campus. However, my biggest issue is that I would like to bring a girl out and practice kino and stuff before attempting abundance. This results in stressing over oneitis.

Should I go straight for a number of girls and start practicing that way? I'm afraid of embarrassing myself and kick myself for going quantity over quality. What I wanna ensure here is that I get good at it by going slow first. is this a terrible mindset to have? Please give me some advice.

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