PUA Forum :: One abnoxious dude sabotaging my other students!!!

Quote:

The man came to me for improvement. If i drop his ass like i should, he will leave with a worse mindset than he came with. Thats whats bothering me the most. My other businesses aren't about developing/bettering peoples personalities, so i wouldnt have a guilty conscience like this if i did get rid of a client who's being a pain in the ass.

I digg what you mean though and in the end somethings gotta give, either he flips or he's out since i cant have one un-disciplined dude ruin it for the rest.

What if you were a karate master, and one of your students kept kicking all the other students (and you) in the balls on purpose? You'd have to kick him out. The same thing applies here. Why feel bad about it when it's his decision anyway? I'm sure you've threatened to kick him out by now, so he knows it's a possibility by now anyway. If he doesn't want to heed your warnings, that's on him.

Author:	0uch [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 10:08 am ]
Post subject:
Treat your company like any other business out there. Give him his money back and kick him out. Is your business and you call the shot. And just like any other business out there, your gonna get a bad review somewhere. Is a part of running a business. Go to the movies, if you start annoy other people, you will get kicked out. Go to a bar, you get to drunk, regardless of spending shit load of money, you will be cut off, and possible kicked out depending on your behavior. I suggest you go to book stores and pick up some books on running businesses. What I just told you should be common sense.

Author:	locust [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 10:31 am ]
Post subject:
WOW. OK yeah that kind of behaviour is intolerable. Either kick him out or take him out separately and (as I assume you charge more for 1-on-1s) make him aware of the situation. Personally I wouldn't teach someone like that.

Author:	Snarg [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:54 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: The man came to me for improvement. If i drop his ass like i should, he will leave with a worse mindset than he came with. Thats whats bothering me the most. My other businesses aren't about developing/bettering peoples personalities, so i wouldnt have a guilty conscience like this if i did get rid of a client who's being a pain in the ass. I digg what you mean though and in the end somethings gotta give, either he flips or he's out since i cant have one un-disciplined dude ruin it for the rest. What if you were a karate master, and one of your students kept kicking all the other students (and you) in the balls on purpose? You'd have to kick him out. The same thing applies here. Why feel bad about it when it's his decision anyway? I'm sure you've threatened to kick him out by now, so he knows it's a possibility by now anyway. If he doesn't want to heed your warnings, that's on him.

Author:	charblad [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 3:51 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: Quote: The man came to me for improvement. If i drop his ass like i should, he will leave with a worse mindset than he came with. Thats whats bothering me the most. My other businesses aren't about developing/bettering peoples personalities, so i wouldnt have a guilty conscience like this if i did get rid of a client who's being a pain in the ass. I digg what you mean though and in the end somethings gotta give, either he flips or he's out since i cant have one un-disciplined dude ruin it for the rest. What if you were a karate master, and one of your students kept kicking all the other students (and you) in the balls on purpose? You'd have to kick him out. The same thing applies here. Why feel bad about it when it's his decision anyway? I'm sure you've threatened to kick him out by now, so he knows it's a possibility by now anyway. If he doesn't want to heed your warnings, that's on him. Lol I AM a karate instructor and I'd kick the guys ass and clean my floors a bit if anyone tried to hurt my students, but that's because I can don't do that out in the world or you'd get sued pretty fast If think its a DHV if someone went bragging I'm learning PUA, i could be more direct with the girl and it makes them already interested in me, the only reason u don't do it now is cuz girls can tell if your doin it on purpose. Either way I agree, either tell him "no refunds" or send him some money and don't talk to him, the first part of learning pua is willingness, to take instruction And learn from it, he needs inside game before you can help him

Author:	JamesWatson31 [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:
I have had staff all my adult life and your situation is not unique. Just try and explain to him privately that his ways are not helpful and not in any way successful. Basically try and have an adult and sensible conversation with him. If it does not work then tell him nicely that you cannot continue to accept him as a client and part on reasonably courteous terms if possible.

PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

One abnoxious dude sabotaging my other students!!! https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=144371	Page 1 of 1

Author:	0uch [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:
Good move! He can only improve himself if he puts in the effort.

Author:	WhiteRabbit55 [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 1:34 am ]
Post subject:	did you see something?
do you really want to teach this guy while you notice his behavior?

Page 1 of 1	All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/