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Author:  Anth0ny_ [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  So how do I deal with "high class" girls?
Hey there!
So, my school started yesterday and I noticed that there were a lot of new girls.
They're stunning, really, but the problem is that they are (or act) very "high class".
Usually a guy would be all like "Omg, no, are you crazy, don't try anything on her, you won't get her anyway!" but I'm not like that. I like challenges. In every situation, there's pros and cons.
Pros are that I am really social and that I can make people laugh. Well, lots of people can do that so no biggy. But a really big con is that I'm not.. attractive AT ALL, lol!
So I, the not attractive boy, wants to get with the "high class" girl.
How do I handle this? Honestly, I have no idea at all. Mostly because these girls are (or at least, seem) very confident. Like, they'd give you a wink with no meaning behind it. Or say whatever they want to, or do whatever they want to. I really think they wouldn't settle with a guy like me. Because, you know, I don't have the right looks.
I have talked to a couple of these girls before and that (the situation above) is the impression I got so far (and my friends as well).
Is there anyone out here who can help me out? Help would be appreciated, really.

PS: English is not my first language so please don't mind if you find any grammatical errors. Haha.

Thanks in advance.

- Anthony
Author:  Anth0ny_ [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:22 pm ]
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Bro, seriously, thank you for replying!
I guess you're right. Haha the only reason I belittle myself is because I don't want to sound all confident on here and then fail in real life, 'cause that would actually be really humiliating, don't you think? Hahaha. I also like to exaggerate, so that every situation seems not so bad at all. It really works haha but I guess it brings you a bit down.

Honestly, Tony, I do think I have self confidence. I do what I want, whenever I want. I don't care about anyone else and what they think of me. 'Cause really, why would I care about anyone's opinion? Basically, you can call me a non-conformist. I never let anyone change me haha. I really love that about me. I see how a lot of people lack confidence. Besides, I can talk to any girl. The only problem for me is - how do I take it to the next level?

Give me 2 days (or a week at max.) and I have completely changed my mindset.

Anyway, do you think you can answer the question I wrote in italic?

- Anthony
Author:  Anth0ny_ [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:40 pm ]
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Once again, thank you for posting! I'll check it out!

Oh, by the way, is it cool if I PM you later on? Like, if I have more questions?

- Anthony
Author:  Schibles [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:59 pm ]
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Tony has a good point, your valueing these girls higher than you by saying your not attractive enough and they are confident etc... Girls are attracted to guys with "Higher Value than themself". Lucky for us guys girls don't base all attraction just based off looks (but as guys we do cuz were shallow beasts). Focus on improving your value in these areas, you already stated you have pretty good foundation:

Health
Social Intuition
Humor

Attributes:

Status
Wealth

Congruence (sounds like you need more Congruence)

Pre-Selection
Challenging
Confident
Author:  Anth0ny_ [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 7:25 pm ]
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Once again, thank you for posting! I'll check it out!

Oh, by the way, is it cool if I PM you later on? Like, if I have more questions?

- Anthony
No problem man, and sure, feel free to msg me, i always answer my PMs when im online which is several times a day as you might have noticed :)

Have a good one man!
Thanks man! By the way, I've changed my mindset for like 60-70% so far! It'll be really easy haha, repeating things in your head helps a lot.
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Tony has a good point, your valueing these girls higher than you by saying your not attractive enough and they are confident etc... Girls are attracted to guys with "Higher Value than themself". Lucky for us guys girls don't base all attraction just based off looks (but as guys we do cuz were shallow beasts). Focus on improving your value in these areas, you already stated you have pretty good foundation:

Health
Social Intuition
Humor

Attributes:

Status
Wealth

Congruence (sounds like you need more Congruence)

Pre-Selection
Challenging
Confident
What do you exactly mean with wealth? Like the clothes I wear? Or the accessoires that I carry? I have a smartphone myself but I never take it with me because of my fear of contamination. Usually this topic interests a lot of girls but I guess it's a turn-off as well. I mean, girls really like clean guys but I don't think they like guys who are *too* clean. I guess I should work on that haha. :p
Also, since English isn't my first language, I have nooooo idea what congruence means. I tried to wikipedia it but there were way too many disambiguations. Care to explain?
Thank you!

- Anthony
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