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Author:  blackholegalaxies [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  is this an IOI??
if a set of two HBs get close to you with their backs facing you while having a normal conversation...does it mean that they want to get hit on by you? or just a big chance that they're just there because they felt like it?


this happens to me alot, and i keep wondering tht if they're hinting me to talk to them

what are your opinions?
Author:  blackholegalaxies [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:38 pm ]
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If two women are standing close to you with their backs towards you and are having a casual girl2girl convo, i'd say you're pretty much being ignored and they are minding their own business.... Have you ever tried opening a set like that? If so, what happened?
well i am a newbie and last time i was in the Club , i kept getting ignored while it was hard for me to do the routines since the music was too loud and crowded

most of the time i get AA to even approach the girl and come up with excuses that why I shouldn't go talk to her ;P

I'm trying to get rid of my AA and man up next time i am sarging.. i don't think i'll be heading to clubs anymore ,,,maybe bars would do it
Author:  anthonypham [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: is this an IOI??
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if a set of two HBs get close to you with their backs facing you while having a normal conversation...does it mean that they want to get hit on by you? or just a big chance that they're just there because they felt like it?


this happens to me alot, and i keep wondering tht if they're hinting me to talk to them

what are your opinions?
It depends.

If HBs get close to you and their backs facing you, it could be that they are attracted, and unconsciously come near you (approximity). But then they should now and then look at you, to see if you are looking...

or you opened them already and they are still near you (hoping that you will continue the conversation).

If none of these happen, then they just haven't noticed you...
Author:  blackholegalaxies [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:51 pm ]
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Didnt mean to go full retard on you dawg, and i know from experience what AA is but doing nothing will not make that anxiety dissapear. You need to almost force yourself to open a set even when you notice that you are being ignored (if that is the case). If you get shot down, analyze, adapt and repeat until you make it.

Getting rid of AA is a process that will not happen overnight and that goes together with failure. Go out, have fun, open sets and fail your way to PUA :)
yeah you're absolutely right....before going to the Club I prepared and felt confident to go talk to women...i even started talking to strangers on my way to the club for warming my self up

but then when i saw those attractive HBs I froze like a little chump..
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