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Author:  aschillascanbe [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 3:09 pm ]
Post subject:  i thought i set the logistics right but..

this girl goes to my class and she's not native, so her english isn't very well. we're having our exams now. she'll be leaving this sun and be back in one month.

our last conversation last friday

me: we should totally hang out before you go back to
her: yeh i know TT
her: im leaving the next day of the last test!

i sent her this yesterday night.. she hasn't replied since then

me: I'll be going to (some place) for some ice cream this sat.. itd be cool if you can come

am i over analysing?

Author:  Snarg [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 3:27 pm ]
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I wouldn't call that "overanalyzing" by any means, but in most cases, this is kind of like her declining your offer indirectly for whatever reason. If you want to give it one last try, call her up and ask that way. If she doesn't answer or declines again, I'd personally move on. Not responding to an invitation is kind of disrespectful in my eyes and I have very little tolerance for that. You had the balls to ask her to go out and she didn't have the common courtesy to at least give you a graceful decline.

Then again, maybe she'll still respond. Give it a few more hours.

Author:  aschillascanbe [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 3:44 pm ]
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I wouldn't call that "overanalyzing" by any means, but in most cases, this is kind of like her declining your offer indirectly for whatever reason. If you want to give it one last try, call her up and ask that way. If she doesn't answer or declines again, I'd personally move on. Not responding to an invitation is kind of disrespectful in my eyes and I have very little tolerance for that. You had the balls to ask her to go out and she didn't have the common courtesy to at least give you a graceful decline.

Then again, maybe she'll still respond. Give it a few more hours.
well it stokes me too.. actually I saw her in school outside the examination hall and she said hi to me.. we were rushin in and I wasn't in the gaming mode so I only said hey back.. but it's unlike her to take this long so I have no idea.. I mean if shes not interested she could just say she will be packing her bag on Saturday night or something like that.. so I don't know what I make out of it..

sometimes I wonder why am I trying to game girls in my class.. it adds pressure when things like this happen.. I mean I will still be seein her in class and such.. maybe I should stop doing this? Jesus Christ this shit cranks..

Author:  aschillascanbe [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 3:29 am ]
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does anyone have any more advice for me? i would appreciate it very much.

Author:  Tr@veler [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 9:23 am ]
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You care way too much about this one girl. That is your true problem. You are definitely overanalyzing this. If you would have 4 other girls texting you, would you really care as much about this one chick?

However, it is probably a sign she is not interested, or at least not as much as you are.

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