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| Author: | MikeSpike [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | The small push. |
Once I start talking to people or girls I get into this mode as simple pickup calls it the gd mode. In this mode I can talk to girls easily not think of the consequences. It's like time stops and I start thinking less about the outcome. One of my biggest problems is however to push myself to start talking to people. Once I can do that everything else is pretty much done. Does anyone have any advice on how I can overcome this obstacle. It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 2:23 am ] |
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Go against your fears. |
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| Author: | MikeSpike [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 3:13 am ] |
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Can someone elaborate please. |
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| Author: | Great-1 [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 3:44 am ] |
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you gotta build yourself up bro! take the baby steps! "When you set out to build a building do you say " I'm gonna build the biggest ,baddest , most amazing building ever" or do you say " I'm going to place this brick in its place as perfectly as I can and if I place enough of them perfectly it WILL BECOME the best building ever" - Will Smith The correct answer is the second! You want to take the big step of talking to everyone with ultimate confidence but its very hard to do this in one giant step. If you have AA or social angst then you should first talk to all of the people who are easy to talk to. SUCH AS: Other guys People who work in the area and are supposed to be freindly Ugly people Old people etc etc.... You should always be talking to random people wherever you go even if its just another male or a middle aged woman. 1) because it will make it easy to talk to women because your ALWAYS talking to people 2) because it might help you learn how to deal with obstacles better (it helped me that way! by talking to ugly women you may get introduced to good looking women aka social proof) Just generally learn how to be a good listener and talker and it become much easier to have conversations with not only women but EVERYONE |
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| Author: | Roaker1 [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 4:27 am ] |
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Thats wierd i just notice its easier to talk to uglier ladies then cute ones. |
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| Author: | Great-1 [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 9:41 pm ] |
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Quote: Thats wierd i just notice its easier to talk to uglier ladies then cute ones.
the fear of rejection is out of the question cuz you dont actually want her
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