PUA Forum :: Punishing women for their wrongs

I usually do this by freezing her out until she initiates or until I feel like it. I never initiate these days cause it has come to a point where I'm irritated by this girl. so I usually call her out on things after the freeze out phase and tell her do it to me again and then also don't ever talk to me again. Do I handle the situation right? If not tell me the way to handle it,if I do tell me better ways to handle it?

So I shouldn't call her out,I should just not bring it up and let it slide,after the freeze out? I'm confused,because you say calling her out shows you care,then proceed to say you call woman out if they misbehave. I called her out,but I wasn't disrespectful I told her how I felt,that if she does it again she shouldn't talk to me ever again(in a very calm voice) I usually speak my mind and then continued like nothing happened straight after that statement. I didn't like what she did at all and if she does it again,I will proceed to not talk to her myself,but if I'm wrong in my handling I will do better next time.

You are wrong on both accounts,I'm not getting needy and I do have girls in the pipeline 2 only unfortunately. The reason I talk about this girl is cause I want to get each section of my game right,before I go to varsity and I use her as example to give a real life experience don't like talking in theory alone. The other two I can barely see due to the fact they busy with varsity and the other only comes on weekends which I'm mainly busy with my sports,soccer and hockey. I just want to know how to handle every situation so I'm on a learning session during this gap year approaching women and seeing what works and fails and asking a lot of questions as way to learn so I improve,and if I'm not happy with the results I ask for help so I can improve on that section and try it out and see how it works. Meeting new women aint a prob I meet new people everyday,but I want to keep women intrigued and perfect my game. I'm in the experimental phase at this point,I don't just post useless rubbish and if you have seen how I approved you would agree. I don't post as it happens,I just remember old things and also its with different women.

Author:	Azizi [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 7:43 pm ]
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I usually do this by freezing her out until she initiates or until I feel like it. I never initiate these days cause it has come to a point where I'm irritated by this girl. so I usually call her out on things after the freeze out phase and tell her do it to me again and then also don't ever talk to me again. Do I handle the situation right? If not tell me the way to handle it,if I do tell me better ways to handle it?

Author:	daffy duck [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 7:51 pm ]
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Quote: I usually do this by freezing her out until she initiates or until I feel like it. I never initiate these days cause it has come to a point where I'm irritated by this girl. so I usually call her out on things after the freeze out phase and tell her do it to me again and then also don't ever talk to me again. Do I handle the situation right? If not tell me the way to handle it,if I do tell me better ways to handle it? if you tell her to do it again, aren't you just asking for trouble? i've heard that calling women out shows that you care which kind of gives them the upper hand because the one with most power is the one who cares the least etc... i'll call a woman out if i think she's misbehaving but i will never be rude or disrespectful to her.

Author:	Azizi [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 5:59 am ]
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So I shouldn't call her out,I should just not bring it up and let it slide,after the freeze out? I'm confused,because you say calling her out shows you care,then proceed to say you call woman out if they misbehave. I called her out,but I wasn't disrespectful I told her how I felt,that if she does it again she shouldn't talk to me ever again(in a very calm voice) I usually speak my mind and then continued like nothing happened straight after that statement. I didn't like what she did at all and if she does it again,I will proceed to not talk to her myself,but if I'm wrong in my handling I will do better next time.

Author:	pumpington [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 6:31 am ]
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meet more girls, you care too much, you'll understand when you have 10 girls texting you, how to treat a time waster... you simply don't give her your time, if she is irritating you cause things aren't going your way, then you obviously don't have enough girls in the pipeline and you're getting needy for one in particular

Author:	Azizi [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 11:47 am ]
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You are wrong on both accounts,I'm not getting needy and I do have girls in the pipeline 2 only unfortunately. The reason I talk about this girl is cause I want to get each section of my game right,before I go to varsity and I use her as example to give a real life experience don't like talking in theory alone. The other two I can barely see due to the fact they busy with varsity and the other only comes on weekends which I'm mainly busy with my sports,soccer and hockey. I just want to know how to handle every situation so I'm on a learning session during this gap year approaching women and seeing what works and fails and asking a lot of questions as way to learn so I improve,and if I'm not happy with the results I ask for help so I can improve on that section and try it out and see how it works. Meeting new women aint a prob I meet new people everyday,but I want to keep women intrigued and perfect my game. I'm in the experimental phase at this point,I don't just post useless rubbish and if you have seen how I approved you would agree. I don't post as it happens,I just remember old things and also its with different women.

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Author:	daffy duck [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 12:01 pm ]
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Quote: So I shouldn't call her out,I should just not bring it up and let it slide,after the freeze out? I'm confused,because you say calling her out shows you care,then proceed to say you call woman out if they misbehave. I called her out,but I wasn't disrespectful I told her how I felt,that if she does it again she shouldn't talk to me ever again(in a very calm voice) I usually speak my mind and then continued like nothing happened straight after that statement. I didn't like what she did at all and if she does it again,I will proceed to not talk to her myself,but if I'm wrong in my handling I will do better next time. well it all depends on the individual really. there is no hard and fast rule over what to do. some schools of thought say call her out, some say don't - just 'next' her. as long as you are aware that it is in a crocodile's nature to do what it does and you have no right to berate it for being a crocodile you should be alright. if the crocodile snaps its jaws again then you just have to accept that it is just doing what a crocodile is doing and move onto something that's less likely to hurt you.

Author:	pumpington [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 12:03 pm ]
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Quote: You are wrong on both accounts,I'm not getting needy and I do have girls in the pipeline 2 only unfortunately. The reason I talk about this girl is cause I want to get each section of my game right,before I go to varsity and I use her as example to give a real life experience don't like talking in theory alone. The other two I can barely see due to the fact they busy with varsity and the other only comes on weekends which I'm mainly busy with my sports,soccer and hockey. I just want to know how to handle every situation so I'm on a learning session during this gap year approaching women and seeing what works and fails and asking a lot of questions as way to learn so I improve,and if I'm not happy with the results I ask for help so I can improve on that section and try it out and see how it works. Meeting new women aint a prob I meet new people everyday,but I want to keep women intrigued and perfect my game. I'm in the experimental phase at this point,I don't just post useless rubbish and if you have seen how I approved you would agree. I don't post as it happens,I just remember old things and also its with different women. the opposite of neediness is not hate, it is indifference, if you have other girls, that is a great, it's a good tool to help yourself in overcomming neediness, it does not mean that you are incapable of becoming needy or that you are not already needy, the same goes for hobies and other distractions, happiness is an emotion and you can be happy because you choose to be, it will not come as the result of obtaining something, it comes from within you now tell me, why would you want to punish someone or find the correct tactic to get some sort of specific reaction out of them if you were indifferent towards them to begin with? punishment is not getting your game down, it is being resentful because you were unable to get something, or it is your means to an end for getting something, rather then being indifferent to getting something in the first place there is no way to handle every situation, you have to be able to de-tach and be ok with this, cop and blow, you are either picking up girls for casual encounters, or you are attaching yourself to specific girls, there is no real in between, girls come and girls go, not being able to let go of an outcome will not improve your success, it will slow it down and impede it, that is assuming your goal is just consistent casual sex with different sexual partners you want to improve the rate at which you get women, then cut this need out of your soul to get something, give more value instead of wanting to take, improve yourself so that you ultimately have more to give and eventually you will get to this point less often, it just won't happen, there will be no reason to punish anyone, or get back at them for something that doesn't matter, you simply give as much as you have to offer, and if she does not choose to reciprocate, you move on, there is no need to get her or get anything from her, there is no need to punish her, doing so is a waste of time and emotion, attach with utter conviction, and when the sentiment is not returned, you detach, it is not in order to get something, it is in order to properly manage your time and keep your own emotions in check, those that feel a fear of loss from you, will return for the value, but you still need not get anything from them, that sort of thinking process will lead you down a dark road and showcase that which you are lacking, rather then that which you have to offer if you are irritated by one girl not giving you something, then you must need something from her, there is little other conclusion you can draw from that, indifference is simply not caring GOOD LUCK

Author:	Azizi [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 2:12 pm ]
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Thanks for the replies,these are the replies I wanted initially. Thanks

Author:	SOUL_FIGHTER [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 3:05 pm ]
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Say what I like to say: "I don't like your indecisiveness" "I dont like this game" "I'm not buying into your frame" When girls I just meet ask me for drinks, I tell them "I don't know you like that" Or bark at her.

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