PUA Forum :: Need Help With Oneitis...

I never had trouble with getting over ex-girlfriends but once. My oneitis was eating at me hard. Had sex with 8 women in the next 3 weeks. Still didn't help me since I was being a bitch and couldn't overcome my feeling of "wtf went wrong? I loved this girl and still do." Being with other females was the problem I had. Shit just reminded me of "the one."

From further analysis, I decided to occupy my mind with other things. Literally write yourself a plan of how YOU can improve. This might seem silly but it worked well for me. I wrote out my fields as: intellectually, athletically/health, artistically, other. Then I wrote out activities that could interest ME in each of those fields.

For example:

Intellectually: reading, going and playing at a chess club, reading news, going to an interest club/gathering.

Athletically: gym, jogging, sport club, swimming, hiking, backpacking, yoga

Artistically: museums, art galleries, theater, painting, drawing, playing a musical instrument, going to concerts

Other: traveling, dance classes, cooking, going out to eat, going to a firing range, collecting something

Then I picked what I would like to do. Wrote out goals and a time frame by which I would like to accomplish something in each of those fields. I included career in my list since I'm a business owner and set my own hours. Another important field is Aesthetics which include you improving your wardrobe and keeping your hygiene at a top level. Always be neat. Also the way you present yourself (i.e. posture, voice projection)

Doing all of this helped me very much forgetting my ex. You are improving yourself and doing everything that YOU want to do. People will flock to you from each of these fields. I took 8 different varieties of dancing, and from each was constantly invited to social dancing parties. Met people when I went out to eat by myself (of course I had confidence so I was the one approaching), met people at art galleries and concerts, visited few countries and met people there, met people at different clubs.

All of these things will make you feel better about YOURSELF as a person and will bring you confidence. Just pick things you like and remember that your life isn't over. You have to keep on becoming the better you.

Besides, being interested in yourself and your activities and wanting to succeed in them will make girls come to you.

The hardest thing is to organize yourself. Best of luck!

Author:	Woolnut [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 5:53 pm ]
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Okay so this girl has completely fucked me up, like she wont answer calls or texts, all i want is a damn reply from here saying if i should leave her alone. We were getting on well and its all changed within like 3 days? no reason at all and i cant think why either? she isn't anything special and i know that, its just bugging me alot... even though i didnt actually no her that well. I need a serious answer people, not just some BS that makes me sound like an idiot. Never thought someone could play with my head so much really but she seems to have got under my skin and not sure how? Thanks Edit: By the way im 16 and so is she

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:02 pm ]
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Move the hell on! Drop it! your 16 for fuck sake. She's already making out with some other dude! Game the next girl and forget this one! If you let her get under your skin...she wins!

Author:	Woolnut [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:07 pm ]
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need some ways to help forget her then, also is it really that fucking hard for a girl to answer a question with a yes or no? she is just being an awkward bitch i guess

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:26 pm ]
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Quote: need some ways to help forget her then, also is it really that fucking hard for a girl to answer a question with a yes or no? she is just being an awkward bitch i guess It's easier for them to not respond and risk the confrontation, then to come up with a "reason" that you don't want to hear anyway! Learn to come out the coolest MFer alive...this didn't bother you in the slightest! Hell game her BFF tomorrow...and smile the whole time!

Author:	TwinBridges [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:31 pm ]
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Oneitis isn't a disease. It's a condition that can be treated with music and confidence and activities. Save her number as "NO" and have the last laugh when she finally calls you and you've moved on. Flip the script!

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Author:	Woolnut [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 6:59 pm ]
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thanks for the responses, i just want to get across a message that she is going to miss me? Not sure how im going to do it but i'd love her to come running back so i can game her on a round 2 mainly so i can just drop her like shit when i feel like it. I mean sounds harsh but i think the bitch deserves it, also i dont actually know who her BFF is haha

Author:	Wils92 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 7:21 pm ]
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Quote: .she wins! GAME OVER!! Time to put another disk in and game !

Author:	Sebo [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 9:48 pm ]
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game a girl... after you succeed with the follow-up girl, let the oneitis spreader see it...

Author:	Pickwick [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 10:21 pm ]
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I've come to a conclusion that oneitis is an addiction. Any professional/book that deals with addictions will tell you that the best way is to occupy your mind/time with something else. This is what I did to successfully overcome my oneitis: Quote: I never had trouble with getting over ex-girlfriends but once. My oneitis was eating at me hard. Had sex with 8 women in the next 3 weeks. Still didn't help me since I was being a bitch and couldn't overcome my feeling of "wtf went wrong? I loved this girl and still do." Being with other females was the problem I had. Shit just reminded me of "the one." From further analysis, I decided to occupy my mind with other things. Literally write yourself a plan of how YOU can improve. This might seem silly but it worked well for me. I wrote out my fields as: intellectually, athletically/health, artistically, other. Then I wrote out activities that could interest ME in each of those fields. For example: Intellectually: reading, going and playing at a chess club, reading news, going to an interest club/gathering. Athletically: gym, jogging, sport club, swimming, hiking, backpacking, yoga Artistically: museums, art galleries, theater, painting, drawing, playing a musical instrument, going to concerts Other: traveling, dance classes, cooking, going out to eat, going to a firing range, collecting something Then I picked what I would like to do. Wrote out goals and a time frame by which I would like to accomplish something in each of those fields. I included career in my list since I'm a business owner and set my own hours. Another important field is Aesthetics which include you improving your wardrobe and keeping your hygiene at a top level. Always be neat. Also the way you present yourself (i.e. posture, voice projection) Doing all of this helped me very much forgetting my ex. You are improving yourself and doing everything that YOU want to do. People will flock to you from each of these fields. I took 8 different varieties of dancing, and from each was constantly invited to social dancing parties. Met people when I went out to eat by myself (of course I had confidence so I was the one approaching), met people at art galleries and concerts, visited few countries and met people there, met people at different clubs. All of these things will make you feel better about YOURSELF as a person and will bring you confidence. Just pick things you like and remember that your life isn't over. You have to keep on becoming the better you. Besides, being interested in yourself and your activities and wanting to succeed in them will make girls come to you. The hardest thing is to organize yourself. Best of luck!

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