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| Author: | Hermes444 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 5:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | text went cold - need advise |
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 7:38 am ] |
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More proof most PUA material is whack and making things harder for guys. Stop thinking so damn much, get out of your head. |
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| Author: | 870 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 1:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: text went cold - need advise |
Quote: I met cute HB late 20s - she seemed immediately attracted to me and initiated some mild making out (after a few drinks). she did call me out on playing games though (i turned my head as she tried to kiss me - neg). I was very clear about wanting her to come home with me, i think she appreciated that - We exchanged numbers and she walked me half way home.
First of all, turning your head when a person is about to kiss you isn't a neg, it's just mean and stupid. Why would you want to discourage a woman from advancing the interaction in a more sexual direction? And how can you say you were 'very clear' about wanting her when you just denied her one of the most fundamental indications of sexual intent?All of these actions communicate disinterest, which will cause her to backward rationalize that she's not interested in you once she has the benefit of hindsight and begins to reflect on the evening's events. Honestly, I'm surprised you got her phone number at all. And as for the text exchange you posted ... well, imagine how much differently it could have gone if you'd kissed her when she wanted you to and taken her ass home like YOU wanted to. Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | Hermes444 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 2:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: text went cold - need advise |
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First of all, turning your head when a person is about to kiss you isn't a neg, it's just mean and stupid. Why would you want to discourage a woman from advancing the interaction in a more sexual direction?
To clarify, it was more of a half second tease - it seemed to work - she wanted me more after and we did advance. Either way criticism appreciated.Is this savable? |
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