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Author:  Criss hell [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 3:52 am ]
Post subject:  Weirdest approach by hb-#closed.How proceed?
Hi Guys,
Last night some thing weird happened for me. I just graduated from college and usually go to a bar near my college on Thursday to game and have fun with college chicks.
So last Thursday I went there and just had fun and opened as much as hb I could.
Nothing especial happened.Not even a #. But I showed DHV by approaching all hbs and having fun by myself.
Last night I was at another bar (not near my college) and it was like 1:30 am,that this chick approached me and tried to tell me something. It was in the middle of dance floor. So I asked her to go somewhere more quite.I could see she was in to me and gave me IOIs.(touching etc...)
So anyways when we got to more quite place, She told me she lost her phone and her friends saw me stealing her phone on Thursday.I was like "WTF" and who is her friend and I want to see her etc. I was pretty shocked and angry.
She started to make me calm and told me "calm down" and realized maybe there was some thing else going on.
So I asked her what's her name and what's her major etc... I told her "btw you are gorgeous" I could say she is 8 and she is cute. She just giggled and I saw a cute smile on her face.She looked down for a second as she felt shy.
So I told her , we should meet each other. I asked for her number. She immediately grabbed my phone as she was waiting for it. She put her number.She was so nervous that put the wrong number 2 times.
I told her I'll call her and we should meet and get to know each other and I won't leaver her alone because of what she said. She laughed and gave me a hug and left.
I know she has seen me several times.
Guys, my first question is what just happened?
Second question:I'd like to meet her . How should I proceed?
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 9:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Weirdest approached by hb-#closed.How proceed?
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Guys, my first question is what just happened?
what happened?
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Last night some thing weird happened for me. I just graduated from college and usually go to a bar near my college on Thursday to game and have fun with college chicks.
So last Thursday I went there and just had fun and opened as much as hb I could.
Nothing especial happened.Not even a #. But I showed DHV by approaching all hbs and having fun by myself.
Last night I was at another bar (not near my college) and it was like 1:30 am,that this chick approached me and tried to tell me something. It was in the middle of dance floor. So I asked her to go somewhere more quite.I could see she was in to me and gave me IOIs.(touching etc...)
So anyways when we got to more quite place, She told me she lost her phone and her friends saw me stealing her phone on Thursday.I was like "WTF" and who is her friend and I want to see her etc. I was pretty shocked and angry.
She started to make me calm and told me "calm down" and realized maybe there was some thing else going on.
So I asked her what's her name and what's her major etc... I told her "btw you are gorgeous" I could say she is 8 and she is cute. She just giggled and I saw a cute smile on her face.She looked down for a second as she felt shy.
So I told her , we should meet each other. I asked for her number. She immediately grabbed my phone as she was waiting for it. She put her number.She was so nervous that put the wrong number 2 times.
I told her I'll call her and we should meet and get to know each other and I won't leaver her alone because of what she said. She laughed and gave me a hug and left.
this ^ happened
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Second question:I'd like to meet her . How should I proceed?
try to meet her, it's time to learn by doing
Author:  Criss hell [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 11:39 pm ]
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lol Thank you for the response. But probably I didn't express my problem/questions well.
I think she is interested in me . But this is my point of view. I am not sure how much and I think she really though I stole her cellphone although she likes me.Probably she has a jealous friend.
1-I think the most important question is : Generally, when somebody accuses you of doing something like this ( that obviously you have not done) how should I react?(ignore, act seriously etc..)
2-If I don't act well, these chicks love to tell bullshits about me to others.So I want to react as best as I could since this is the worst thing a person can be called.(thief)
3-How can I ask her out? if she says no. it's worse.
I was thinking of texting something related to what she said. but I don't know exactly what I should say and how I should react.
Author:  SpeXXX [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:38 am ]
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lol Thank you for the response. But probably I didn't express my problem/questions well.
I think she is interested in me . But this is my point of view. I am not sure how much and I think she really though I stole her cellphone although she likes me.Probably she has a jealous friend.
1-I think the most important question is : Generally, when somebody accuses you of doing something like this ( that obviously you have not done) how should I react?(ignore, act seriously etc..)
2-If I don't act well, these chicks love to tell bullshits about me to others.So I want to react as best as I could since this is the worst thing a person can be called.(thief)
3-How can I ask her out? if she says no. it's worse.
I was thinking of texting something related to what she said. but I don't know exactly what I should say and how I should react.
She wants to fucking blow your dick thats what she wants. From my pov she just tested you or shit as an excuse to start a conversation with you (pick up routine? who knows).
You acted fine, it really depends on the person you are - if you're a serious person youll take it seriously. I will usually grin.
Anyway, don't worry about fucking up situations just because of how you acted or what you said. If she's slightly into you, there will be a moment of awkwardness like you had and she'll try to change the vibe.

How can you ask her out? man up and just contact her and see how things are rolling... and if she says no, then so fucking what? just move on with your life. Don't let your ego bust your ass.
Author:  kasabi [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 12:47 am ]
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Interesting . . . Until I read this thread I thought that a "Female PUA" was an oxymoron.

You just got picked up like a naive little 18 year old chick. Congrats. Well, you still have to play the role of a man and call her up . . that is if you want to hang out with her intimately.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 5:13 am ]
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It's been 3 days since I got her number. she got my phone and gave a miss call to hers but she told me she didn't have her cell at the time we met.
So I don't think calling is the best option.This chick is so young and usually young chicks forget things easily. I think texting is better to see how is the vibe now and then call her for a date.
I was thinking of texting something like:
"Hey there, usually I don't care about what people think of me. But this one is not cool . I think you are genuine nice girl and it's not your fault but I think it's better to talk about this issue and solve it between us."
I am not native. If you think texting is a good idea, can comment my text?
Author:  .Storm [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 5:54 am ]
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lol I'm a bit confused.. her phone got stolen and you asked for her number? Did her phone not really get stolen?
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 6:51 am ]
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lol I'm a bit confused.. her phone got stolen and you asked for her number? Did her phone not really get stolen?
As she told me she bought a new one.
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 7:05 am ]
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lol I'm a bit confused.. her phone got stolen and you asked for her number? Did her phone not really get stolen?
As she told me she bought a new one.
:( do you still not see your own post, do you really think she had her phone stolen, or are you just oblivious to the little evil chick lies girls make up to give them a reason to talk with you?

any of these sound familiar?

you point out hot guy, ''you like him?''
her: ''no he's too tall and good looking, I'd never date someone prettier then me''


you're on a date, you got your arm around a girl, you're looking into her eyes
her: ''you know I never kiss on first dates''


you're out at the club, it's closing time, you tell her ''It's late right now, lets go back to my place for some more drinks''
her: ''ok, but we're not going to have sex''

^now, do you think these are a bunch of girls being straight up with you?, or do you think this is a bunch of chick excuses to help absolve them of responsibility for their actions, so they can remain in the roll of, ''guy talks to chick'', ''guy hits on chick first'', ''guy makes a move on chick first'', ''guy kisses chick first'', ''guy initiates sex with chick''

imagine the next day, this chick is talking to her buddies, ''oh yeah jenny, I totally whent up to that guy and aggressively tried to sleep with him...''
imagine her being in that roll, now what will her friends think of her?
(keep in mind most girls are super sensative to what people think of them)

what do you think these girls are doing in these situations or thinking about, while they are saying something completely different?

now, lets review
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I showed DHV by approaching all hbs and having fun by myself
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it was like 1:30 am,that this chick approached me and tried to tell me something. It was in the middle of dance floor. So I asked her to go somewhere more quite.I could see she was in to me and gave me IOIs.(touching etc...)
you following so far? ^ what is she doing here again?
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So anyways when we got to more quite place, She told me she lost her phone and her friends saw me stealing her phone on Thursday.I was like "WTF" and who is her friend and I want to see her etc.
^ she didn't produce a friend to back up her story did she?
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She immediately grabbed my phone as she was waiting for it. She put her number.She was so nervous that put the wrong number 2 times.
you paying attention to this at all?

have you ever met a guy who is afraid to tell a girl he likes her, so he walks up and asks for an opinion on something that he obviously doesn't give a fuck about?

hmmm, must be way more easy for girls... they seem much more confident then the majority of guys

anyways, yeah... she had her phone stolen and you are the culprit, you should just move on, cause what you want is not important, what some girl tells you is more important then you expressing yourself, cause she might not like you/approve of you, if you do
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I told her "btw you are gorgeous" She just giggled and I saw a cute smile on her face. She looked down for a second as she felt shy.
So I told her , we should meet each other. I asked for her number. She immediately grabbed my phone as she was waiting for it. She put her number.She was so nervous that put the wrong number 2 times.
I told her I'll call her and we should meet and get to know each other and I won't leaver her alone because of what she said. She laughed and gave me a hug and left.
^ just throwing this out there again, if you are still not getting it
Author:  SmoothFLow [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 7:14 am ]
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Hey, Bro. Nice post, but I think you missed one small detail~YOU COULD HAVE TOTALLY K-CLOSED HER IF NOT MORE!
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1-I think the most important question is : Generally, when somebody accuses you of doing something like this ( that obviously you have not done) how should I react?(ignore, act seriously etc..)
2-If I don't act well, these chicks love to tell bullshits about me to others.So I want to react as best as I could since this is the worst thing a person can be called.(thief)
3-How can I ask her out? if she says no. it's worse.
I was thinking of texting something related to what she said. but I don't know exactly what I should say and how I should react.
1. It's a major IOI. Make your response ABSURD like: "Oh yeah, I left it in my car, c'mon let's go!"

2. Their testing your playfulness. If you react seriously, they might not take you for a fun guy. But if you play along, you have that ability to change that frame and make yourself seem like her long-lost-soul-mate. She came up to you so she's already attracted to you. You could have given her a sexual staredown, run your fingers behind her head/around her ears(since SHE kino-ed YOU), and went straight in for the kiss.

3. Don't text her. If she's seen you there before, she'll see you there again. Otherwise, just keep gaming other HBs when you go out and she'll see you as a prize when you're not out looking for her. You could leave her a small text like: Hope you made it home safe. and then leave it at that.

:idea: Otherwise, I think you're on the right track. Don't invest more than her into this relationship you have set. Afterall, SHE KNOWS WHERE YOU GAME~! :twisted: Good job, bro.
Author:  SmoothFLow [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 7:20 am ]
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I told her "btw you are gorgeous" She just giggled and I saw a cute smile on her face. She looked down for a second as she felt shy.
So I told her , we should meet each other. I asked for her number. She immediately grabbed my phone as she was waiting for it. She put her number.She was so nervous that put the wrong number 2 times.
I told her I'll call her and we should meet and get to know each other and I won't leaver her alone because of what she said. She laughed and gave me a hug and left.
^ just throwing this out there again, if you are still not getting it[/quote]

:lol: pumpington puts out a good point ~ making it HILARIOUS at the same time 8)

But really, you need to look at the POSITIVES in your FR. It's good to ask questions, but it's also good to identify what happened ~ THEN what could have happened and what you could have done to lead the situation to where you wanted to go :idea: Unless all you wanted to do was number close a girl who says you 'stole' her phone :P Gotta love women~
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 7:59 am ]
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@SmoothFlow: I am aggressive about escalating but It was 1:30 as I said and she knew a bunch of hbs that kinda know me .It seemed creepy if I went deeper So I think the best thing was trying to show her I am a gentleman.But If she was a random chick, yeah you were right.

@pumpington: man I like the way you see the situation and it made me laugh.I agree and understand what you say and that's why I could get her number. But that was the most stupid way to approach a person. If anyone calls me a man whore I don't care , but calling me a thief is another story.That's why it's confused me.
Author:  SmoothFLow [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 8:05 am ]
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:?: Why do you think it'd be creepy if you went deeper?

:idea: Her HB friends knew you? That's enough social-proof, enough for HER to approach YOU. That's awesome.

:?: Also, what does 1:30 have to do with anything besides closing time?

:arrow: But nonetheless, you definitely got her number. :?: Would you happen to have her HB friends' number so you have some contact with her/her friends?
Author:  Vix [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:24 pm ]
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Don't overthink it, she likes you. In some ways she doesn't show but that's because she's shy (and you wrote it yourself) and she's showing you in the only ways she can and they're extremly clear. Trust your gut, she wants you, just send a text and then ask about date as soon as possible.
Author:  SE23 [ Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:28 pm ]
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To game bitches i used to steal their phones all the time, when they confront you about it, just game them and laugh, they see it as you demonstrating higher value than them, and works 99% of the time, plus you get a free phone which you can then sell them on.
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