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| Author: | TheBigDane [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 12:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do here - Didn't know where to put this question |
Whatup everyone! I'm a new around here, although I am by no means new to "The Game". I have spent most of my time on David Deangelos stuff, as he is one of the few guys in this area that I connect with, so keep in mind that my mindset when it comes to women is based on his work. I'm gonna try and give you the whole picture, so you can judge the situation fully informed. (EDIT: It got waaaaaay to long, so disregard this, as I edited out most of it) Anyway I got myself into a sticky situation. Theres this girl that I have taken a liking to, more then usual that is, and its bumming me out. Usually its the classic run of the mill story when I'm at the clubs. I hang at the bar with a wing or a group. Walk around checking the place out, being expressive and deliberate with my body language etc. I find a girl I fancy and I observe the situation to find something I use to spark a conversation. Repeat until I find one that fancies me back, and then just tease my way to victory, whether that ends up being a good make out, a one nighter, or a new wing girl. I like things simple, and uncomplicated, so understand what I truly dislike the situation I'm in SPAM. So this girl that i foolishly have taken a liking to.. In short we have none each other for 3 years, always been friends nothing there, but this passed year she has been trying hard to make it more then that. She asks me to join her at a club every weekend, she texts about things she couldn't possibly know about me without doing a bit of stalking, she calls when I'm not out with her, and she calls the day after we have been out together. I give an in depth description about her body language, and so on, but as this will probably already be a bit long, suffice it to know that I know my PUA at least to an average extend. The partying together has been going on for 6 months now and pretty much every weekend, and all this time I have been deflecting, yet always kept the flirt going when she wrote/called. I deflect because I like her, and when I get emotionally involved, I completely lose my objectivity. Its like I get blindfolded, and I simply can't make any decisions. Usually I'd start ignoring her until she gives up, but for some reason I didn't do this, this time, and now here I am, 6 months deep in this crap. Anyway we were at at school party (I'm 22 btw) together this Friday, and as always I was playful, but never made a move. The morning after she called as always, but I didn't want to pick up, as I thought since i simply can't make it happen here, I should just ignore her. After 3 missed calls though, I ended up writing her back anyway, asking what she wanted which lead her to call again. She told a new friend I made at the school called John had to asked her "what was between us?" (just like her friends tend to do with me), asking what I had told him to make him ask that. Keep in mind her voice was cheerful and I'd stake my life on the fact that she was smiling when she asked. I told her the truth, that I hadn't really made any statements that would lead him to think about it, except having mentioned her a few times during the week, as they are in the same class, then implied it was funny how everyone seemed to want to know about it. In my defense I was, at that point, still a bit drunk and very hungover. I then ended the conversation, and I did notice the different in her voice going from cheerful to.. for a lack of better wording.. acceptance. I knew I should have done it completely different as soon as I hung up, but no matter I couldn't fix it now. Then it struck me, that the reason I never mentioned to her that her friends had asked me the very same question that John asked her last night, was because I didn't want to answer the "What did you answer?" question that would probably have followed. So not thinking, I texted her asking her "By the way, what did you answer John?". My reasoning was, that no matter what she answered, I'd definitively what was going on on her end. If she told him "nothing we are just friends" then that is what we are, and I could finally get my head out of my ass. If it was "I don't know really", or refused to tell me, I know it was on, as she wouldn't be unsure unless she was interested, and wouldn't refuse to answer unless she didn't want me to know, which she wouldn't care about if wasn't interested. Drunken logic is horrible I know. I already know shes interested, and that asking that could easily be perceived as weakness. That was yesterday, and she hasn't replied yet.. and she always replies. How do I play this from here? |
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