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Author:  artfulroger [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  How to approach with social pressure on busy streets
So this was my first attempt at day game, because usually I do night game, I went indirect using an opener, (it felt more comfortable than direct at this time) "do you know where the best men's shop is around here?" I got really cold responses from 3 girls, which is fine, the other 3 were sincere saying "no sorry" and that was the end to it.

The problem, was I think it was the fact I was in quite a crowded high street, where loads of people were weaving in and out of each other. I'm willing to admit it could have been my body language/tone of voice that wasn't helping her ease, however the problem I had was when I girl was walking towards me I would say, "Hi, do you know where the best men's shop is around here?" They generally wouldn't stop while replying, but slowed down a bit, So I just said "ok" or "thanks anyway." Then carried on a few strides and tried again.

For the purpose of knowing my intentions, I would have built rapport and comfort then tried to set up an instadate to that shop if it was close where she could give me the girls opinion on clothes, style etc.

But is there a kind of social pressure that would stop someone being receptive to stopping to talk to a stranger? i.e, potentially holding people up, or people over hearing the conversation etc. Sounds likely to me, but I want to know how you game on a high street if that's the case


Thanks
Author:  artfulroger [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 9:13 am ]
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This is actually my question:
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But is there a kind of social pressure that would stop someone being receptive to stopping to talk to a stranger? i.e, potentially holding people up, or people over hearing the conversation etc. Sounds likely to me, but I want to know how you game on a high street if that's the case
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 1:10 pm ]
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give direct a shot, indirect is a waste of time during the day, you don't need an opinion and an awkward conversation, you should have an intention when speaking with them that relates to them, you want a highly populated area, and you want to play big numbers, talk to lots of girls, get lots of phone numbers, and figure out your own way of screening, but these girls should know what you are after, it's weird to stop someone in the day with no intention, you are not under the same social frame like you would be at a bar, personally IMO it saves a fuck load of time to just get to the point and qualify her for her looks, because usually that is the real reason I am talking to her, it isn't for directions, it isn't for an opinion, it's cause I think she is hot and want to get to know her to make sure she isn't crazy or weird and if she isn't, bang her

to handle to pressure, do 5 sets where you don't intend to succeed, open with anything you want, and do what ever you want, the goal is to awkwardly hang in there until rejection, or if it is going really good, might as well shoot for the moon, but give yourself permission to fail (in other words put forth no real effort what so ever)

one foot in front of the other, your eyes looking at her eyes whether or not she is looking back, clearly so she can hear you, say, ''Excuse me.''

when you get eye contact, speak and lead her to a stop

direct-opener-getting-alot-of-rejection ... tml#657160

^ here is what you can expect

make sure if you are face to face and oncomming that you give her some space to hear you and stop, do your best to stop her with your body language

if you are behind her, pick up the pace and get in front of her, don't try to say excuse me from the back (could scare her), either from the side and get in front, or get in front
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