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Author:  startinglife [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 4:38 pm ]
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Chick at work treats me differently than everyone else. She's fine initiating conversations with other guys that she's not interested in, but not me. She rarely initiates convo with me and she either takes a really long time to answer texts or doesn't reply at all. I get hit on by a lot of girls while I'm working (bar) and I catch her looking at me often. She gets hit on by 95% of customers, so she plays real hard to get.

my q is... do girls game guys?...like purposely give less attention to play hard to get and make guys chase? I think I throw her off her game because while everyone tells her how gorgeous and perfect she is, I tease her a lot and play it cool.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 5:25 pm ]
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Welcome to reality.
Author:  Scofe [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 5:39 pm ]
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Well of course girls game guys , and in this case she is clearly want you to chase her.
Just keep what your doing - keep cool and tease her about it..
Author:  startinglife [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 5:50 pm ]
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so how should i play it? she wants me to chase, but i don't and play it cool. How do I show interest or make a move without chasing? Or do I just keep playing it cool and wait for her to come to me?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 6:08 pm ]
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so how should i play it? she wants me to chase, but i don't and play it cool. How do I show interest or make a move without chasing? Or do I just keep playing it cool and wait for her to come to me?

Lol, you don't play anything. If you want her then you want her, and if you don't then you don't.
Author:  Ilustrado [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 6:27 pm ]
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I don't think its safe to assume that she wants you to chase her just because she doesn't reply to your texts or talk to you. Plus how do you know that she's not interested in the guys she initiates conversation with?
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 6:27 pm ]
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do you know how girls game guys?? very simple

make up
push up bras
slutty clothing
sexy lingerie
sexual perfume
and flirty eye contact

and thats all they need!!
Author:  lukeyx [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 7:13 pm ]
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Girls game guys for several reasons. Ego boosts, taxis, money, free drinks, all sorts of shit with them to name a few.

To get her to chase you, just give her a reason, use pre-selection/DHV.
Author:  SE23 [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 7:48 pm ]
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Girls have more experience on the field of social dynamics, especially attractive ones, so they will eventually learn overtime how to play with guys and people in their environment. Some people in general have this natural ability to game people, its like in their blood.
Author:  startinglife [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 7:56 pm ]
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I don't think its safe to assume that she wants you to chase her just because she doesn't reply to your texts or talk to you. Plus how do you know that she's not interested in the guys she initiates conversation with?
cuz they have GFs and trust me i know
Author:  startinglife [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 7:59 pm ]
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Girls game guys for several reasons. Ego boosts, taxis, money, free drinks, all sorts of shit with them to name a few.

To get her to chase you, just give her a reason, use pre-selection/DHV.
i'm constantly flirting with girl customers so the DHV is there. If I want her I want her if i don't i dont? I do want her but I'm confused cuz I feel like playing it cool and making my intentions clear and hitting on her are two different things.. i'm a newb I know
Author:  The Mountain [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 8:15 pm ]
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Man, I knew this already even when I wasnt in PU. Only difference then was that I thought that if they didnt want to game you, you didnt stand a chance because you were not pretty/cool etc enough.

All this stuff written on this forums is about how you can become a man, that women WANT to game. To become the ALFA male.

What I have learned is the following. Women want to be gamed and they want to game. The game only works differently for them.


My tip is the followoing. Say you are gonna do something really cool (or movie or whatever) and say it would be fun if she came too. 1on1. If she comes game her, play hard to get yourself, show how good you are, but dont try to impress.

If she refuses, write a post about it then. :p
Author:  startinglife [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 2:24 am ]
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would sleeping with the customers ruin my chances with my coworker? a lot of girls flirt with me at work, but I never pursue because most of them are regulars and if I slept with them she would know and maybe think i'm a player or something. I do notice that when I flirt with other girls, she gives me more attention, but flirting is one thing and sleeping with them is another
Author:  theurbanwarrior [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 4:17 am ]
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My tip is the followoing. Say you are gonna do something really cool (or movie or whatever) and say it would be fun if she came too. 1on1. If she comes game her, play hard to get yourself, show how good you are, but dont try to impress.
I totally agree with this - from the sounds of your work environment, especially working the bar, you are in a position to be the alpha dog (plus a high ratio of women to men definitely helps you). Invite her out to something cool around town - nothing date-ish but moreso a public festival or a block/street party or festival or whatever.

Say something along the lines of, "listen, im going to check out (Event name), its going to be bananas..(add more adjectives) I think you are off that day too? you should join me if youre free". You should know her schedule.

If the answer is Yes - like The Mountain said: game her. If no - "thats cool, ive been looking forward to (event name) all week so ill be down there anyways". Say it like it doesnt bother you either way.

ALSO if texting/ communication is an issue, settle the location/time right then and there in your face to face convo.
"Great, ill see you at the starbucks on the corner of ....... and ......, Ill be there for about 7:30, dont keep me waiting ;)"
Its a very take charge alpha move so I think it should work, given what youve described so far.
Author:  Roaker1 [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 5:18 am ]
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Girls game guys for several reasons. Ego boosts, taxis, money, free drinks, all sorts of shit with them to name a few.

To get her to chase you, just give her a reason, use pre-selection/DHV.

Lmao made me laugh about the taxes.
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