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| Author: | aschillascanbe [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 7:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need some serious insights here. |
I got this number from a girl in my class a few days ago. We set up a dinner date yesterday at 7.30pm with she and her friend; my friends (2 guys and 1 girl). One of the guys flaked out. Initially, I wanted to do a 2-2 but things kinda didn't go well so it ended that way. They were worried they might be awkward with me and my friends so I assured them they won't. (because they are koreans and don't speak that good english) When the date starts, it became increasingly awkward (i was freezing for a bit and uncomfortable with the situation). The issue is because I don't know that girl my friend was bringing. It was like a jumbo stranger meeting (i don't know what to call it). The plan was to hit the club afterwards. The friend suggested getting some dessert after dinner so we agreed on ice cream. In the end, they flaked (told me they were going Butter Factory instead of Zouk) and left early for the club, missing the desert. Right after 30 minutes, the conversation went like: Her: where r u guys Me: Having ice cream.. Her: when r u guys heading to zouk? Me: Waiting for a friend and we'll head down soon after Her: hehehe okie.see u there Her last message was sent at 10.17PM. I called her at 12am and she didn't pick up. It was my friend's birthday so we (about 10 people) went in ourselves. I was so AFC worrying about that situation and didn't have a good night even though FEDDE LE FUCKING GRAND was playing. In the end, I left the club at about 3am. My friend, who went dinner with us, saw her at 3.20AM and she sent me a text saying, "i heard u went back". I continued the conversation at 1.31 PM the next day and it went like. (it's SPAM) Me: oh i had to send a friend back Me: you should have seen how drunk she was haha Me: you guys sure took long Her: ha..... i know Her: i looked.for u when i first went in Her: it.was around 11 40? Her: but couldnt find u Her: hehe Her: how was last night? Now, I'm just thinking about this whole thing. What the fuck happened? I need some good advice please! |
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| Author: | aschillascanbe [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 8:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need some serious insights here. |
Quote: I got this number from a girl in my class a few days ago. We set up a dinner date yesterday at 7.30pm with she and her friend; my friends (2 guys and 1 girl). One of the guys flaked out. Initially, I wanted to do a 2-2 but things kinda didn't go well so it ended that way. They were worried they might be awkward with me and my friends so I assured them they won't. (because they are koreans and don't speak that good english)
just a lil bit of editing
When the date starts, it became increasingly awkward (i was freezing for a bit and uncomfortable with the situation). The issue is because I don't know that girl my friend was bringing. It was like a jumbo stranger meeting (i don't know what to call it). The plan was to hit the club afterwards. The korean girl (the one who i got number from) suggested getting some dessert after dinner so we agreed on ice cream. I could tell her friend felt really uncomfortable and awkward. In the end, they flaked (told me they were going Butter Factory instead of Zouk) and left early for the club, missing the desert. Right after 30 minutes, the conversation went like: Her: where r u guys Me: Having ice cream.. Her: when r u guys heading to zouk? Me: Waiting for a friend and we'll head down soon after Her: hehehe okie.see u there Her last message was sent at 10.17PM. I called her at 12am and she didn't pick up. It was my friend's birthday so we (about 10 people) went in ourselves. I was so AFC worrying about that situation and didn't have a good night even though FEDDE LE FUCKING GRAND was playing. In the end, I left the club at about 3am. My friend, who went dinner with us, saw her at 3.20AM and she sent me a text saying, "i heard u went back". I continued the conversation at 1.31 PM the next day and it went like. (it's SPAM) Me: oh i had to send a friend back Me: you should have seen how drunk she was haha Me: you guys sure took long Her: ha..... i know Her: i looked.for u when i first went in Her: it.was around 11 40? Her: but couldnt find u Her: hehe Her: how was last night? Now, I'm just thinking about this whole thing. What the fuck happened? I need some good advice please! |
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| Author: | snillaheart [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 8:56 am ] |
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new girls will leave you if they see a drop of afcness before you close her. as soon as she sees a bit of afc your done no matter how good it was before |
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| Author: | aschillascanbe [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 9:07 am ] |
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Quote: new girls will leave you if they see a drop of afcness before you close her. as soon as she sees a bit of afc your done no matter how good it was before
no dude.. i wasn't with her in the club.. the AFC shit i mean i was chilling with my friends while worrying why she didn't get back to me..
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 9:14 am ] |
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Nothing, dont read into it focus on present. Keep building attraction, be funny through text, entertain her a bit and after a bit segway into getting her out again (after you sense you've built a bit of comfort and she's responding often). |
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| Author: | aschillascanbe [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 2:18 am ] |
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hi, i really need some more advice please. |
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| Author: | theurbanwarrior [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 3:56 am ] |
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Sorry to say but it looks like they werent interested bro, so they decided to do their own thing. That scenario happens quite a bit - chances are the initial interaction was too awkward for them so they took themselves out of the mix. My advice is to freeze out and keep getting more numbers. After the 2nd,3rd number ull forget all about this 
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| Author: | aschillascanbe [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 5:33 am ] |
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Quote: Sorry to say but it looks like they werent interested bro, so they decided to do their own thing. That scenario happens quite a bit - chances are the initial interaction was too awkward for them so they took themselves out of the mix.
think she's basically saying that she went there but didn't want to hang out so she made up a lie.My advice is to freeze out and keep getting more numbers. After the 2nd,3rd number ull forget all about this yeah all right but should i just freeze out? i mean we're still texting and she's responding fine. my text is usually space out like 2hours-4hours. or should i take HeavyRota8tion's advice? |
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| Author: | charblad [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 5:50 am ] |
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Quote: Sorry to say but it looks like they werent interested bro, so they decided to do their own thing. That scenario happens quite a bit - chances are the initial interaction was too awkward for them so they took themselves out of the mix. My advice is to freeze out and keep getting more numbers. After the 2nd,3rd number ull forget all about this Don't use the words "freeze out" to explain "moving on", freeze outs are to build already existing attraction and are advanced techniques, it's like confusing "negs" and "breaking up", they are Completly seperate Don't freeze them out, but take the second part of his advice and game other girls But heavys advice and keep gaming is good too, I'd rather you game and fail or succeed than wait 2 months wondering if they like you or not |
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| Author: | theurbanwarrior [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 3:38 pm ] |
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I agree with HeavyRota8tion - but i think i need to elaborate a little bit more. From what you described, it sounds like you lost ground during the hang out session. IMO, im guessing the awkwardness took you out of your element/comfort zone and made you come off somewhat Beta. However, if she wasnt interested she would just go dark - which clearly isnt the case here. If im off so far, please let me know. So when i said freeze out and "forget all about this", it might have been too harsh. I agree with Charblad on this too. A better suggestion would be to take a few steps back and re-build the attraction again. Take a little time away from here, and get other numbers, which should give you that Alpha mental pump. She might drop you a text to say hi - use that as a venue to DHV and set up a one on one. If i read it correctly, you seem like you know what youre doing - its the group hang out that threw you off. |
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| Author: | Jerichobrown [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 2:49 am ] |
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I think the girl you meet up with is interested in you but her friend wasn't into the group of guys and dragged her away from you. Also if you called and shes in a club, no way in hell she heard the phone ring. If your dancing having fun, getting hit on are you going to be checking your phone? This also may have been a way to play hard to get? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 11:05 am ] |
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you're thinking of, what the fuck just happened? cause you are too focused on the outcome with one specific girl, keep your mind from focusing on the past, what matters is right now, don't worry about what is to come with her either, it's not important if you end up sleeping with her or not when you're feeling like sleeping with her, then invite her out with logistics involved that make that possible, if she is willing to hang out with you alone, and isn't in flake mode (has excuses to not hang out, doesn't matter what they are), just hang out with her and escalate to sleeping with her it's that simple, just bang her, she is either up for it, or she isn't if not, put her on the back burner, she is obviously not a priority if you want to sleep with her and she doesn't want the same, just go meet other girls and run your game and improve it, there's no reason you have to stay focused on one girl, it won't benefit you in any way, all that will do is hinder your progress with your skills, and keep your penis in your hand rather then inside of vaginas, there is nothing anyone can tell you to say or do that will be some magical AHA that lets you get the girl, you either have the skills at this point, or you don't, go out and obtain them if you don't, practise practise practise GOOD LUCK |
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