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| Author: | 88dhfflavlr [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 3:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Topics to Avoid to make the girl feel slutty? |
Are there topics or words to avoid to make the girl feel slutty? I met this girl who I thought just wasn't getting my vibe at the time. I was very aggressive but she just didn't get it. I know she liked me, but just didn't get my vibe. So I asked her if she's sexually open. She said that she was and told me specifically who she last fucked. Afterwards, I implied that I had some good amount of experience with women. But eventually all I did was kiss and never got to her place. In hindsight, she did get my vibe, but I probably just didn't give her enough trust and comfort. She wasn't that drunk either. Also, I showed as if I have little self-control when I'm crazy about something while in fact I have plenty of self control. On the 5th date we were supposed to go somewhere overnight. She flaked. Maybe she wasn't ready for an overnight trip? Said sorry, gave me a legitimate reason, and asked me to reschedule. She has this guy friend who's traveling internationally to stay at his place for 2 weeks. And ended by sending me a heart on the text. I haven't contacted her and I don't think I feel comfortable texting her back first. She was just straight up kind of annoying making me work too hard for it. |
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| Author: | challenger88 [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 3:09 pm ] |
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Sounds to me that she might feel a little bit intimidated, may need some more comfort work bro. Good luck |
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| Author: | Dostoeschweffsky [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 3:33 pm ] |
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I'm not sure "not making her feel slutty" is necessarily the issue here. If you focus too much on that notion, you will run the risk of de-sexualising the interaction between you, and diffuse any existing sexual tension, which is exactly what you don't want. If you've been on 5 dates, as you say, and you haven't got her into bed yet, that is a bad sign. Obviously I don't know the circumstances, but are you sure she currently views you as a viable sex partner? You may have missed the boat rather on this one. How did it go wrong the previous 4 times, if you don't mind me asking? |
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