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| Author: | Snakebite [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 2:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Honesty Vs DHV |
When chatting to girls [in person, on fb chat, or by text], I love the idea of bringing up the topic of dating & relationships/friendships [preselection I think], but I want to be honest about the fact that I have little dating experience [no kisses, no proper girlfriends in the past]. Is there anyway to express the fact comfortability, without worrying that girls might think that was a bit odd etc. Or I could joke about the fact I used to be poor with girls.. but this might be DLV. Or I could put on a fake DHV persona that I'm more experienced with girls than I actually am. Thanks for reading [and replying if you have been] SnakeBite out. |
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| Author: | unknownpoet [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 2:31 pm ] |
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brilliant sherlock. tell them that. it will make them feel that you are a loser and that you must have somekind of a problem and they will never ever want you. |
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| Author: | Night_ [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 2:35 pm ] |
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I once met some dude told this girl he was dating with that he's a virgin and asked her to understand that he might be inexperienced..as you probably guessed they never slept.. dont tell her u never kissed! that doesn't sound good! i once told some girl that i never had a serious relationship but only because i never really loved someone (which is totally true but might also be as a challenge for her), but still, i represent myself as experience guy cause if not, girls wont want u. |
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| Author: | challenger88 [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 2:49 pm ] |
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Putting in a fake DHV will set you up for fail in the long run when you cant back up the things you've said. Dont be brutally honest about your experience either, your better off saying something like "I've met too many psycho women in my time it started to put me off" Some girls also find it more appealing to know the guy their dating hasn't been through almost every female she knows  Good luck bro |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 3:45 pm ] |
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I "faked" it in the beginning. I dunno, I wouldn't do it now. But I never really brought up that topic in the first place. You don't have to bring it up at all, really. If there is a vibe between a girl and you, you can talk about the stupidest shit and stuff will happen regardless. Just don't bring it up and focus more on being in the moment with her. |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 3:53 pm ] |
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Tell her you don't kiss and tell. At least she knows if she sleeps with you you aren't going to blab about it to her friends or your buddys so her ASD will be partialy down and she will respect your integrity, plus it gives an air of mystery about you. I've used that a fair bit and you find they will ask your wingman about it; to which my wingman would always reply "well I don't want to tell you but I will tell you; he only goes out with really, really attractive women" Does wonders for your preselection 
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| Author: | 88dhfflavlr [ Fri Aug 17, 2012 11:26 pm ] |
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Fake DHV persona will get spotted unless the girl's dumb retarded. |
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| Author: | Razor225 [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 10:06 pm ] |
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I don't think they will spot it if you can act a little bit. Make a little story about your high value self. I you learn it well, it will be easy to put it to use. You don't have to tell details to people you don't know well, especially if you're somewhat older (20+), because people expect you have done all those things already. Keep some mystery though. However, it's recommended to make your fake persona as close to your real persona as possible. If you don't have any experience at all, just act like you have somewhat experience but not really much, because you are really picky with girls or something like that. Also have a few answers available for certain questions like 'what's the weirdest place you ever had sex' or 'when did you lose your verginity' and stuff like that. Use the same answers with everyone. Make it true. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Sun Aug 19, 2012 5:37 am ] |
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Hey this is good for your life not just gaming with girls Never fake DHV - if you don't have a DHV story- GO EARN ONE, there is no time in your life where having a good story will be a bad thing, your trying to force the world to change around YOU, when it takes 1/100th of the work to just change yourself (for the better!) About things like virginity and kissing and girlfriends there is NO correct answer, to test that think of this She asks have you had sex, you say no, she doesn't respect you or whatever you think she'll do She asks have you had sex, you say yes;lots of it, she thinks your a male slut Never answer those questions they don't want a answer they want to see how you handle being challenged- I usually just say "you can ask me that on our date tuesday" or "I'll let you believe whatever you want" (and 90% of the time they will guess, just stay impartial) - I get a date or start getting her to look needy for me |
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