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Author:  0dysseus [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:39 am ]
Post subject:  Girl is clingy, ruining game.

To make things brief, I left a long term relationship, slept with a few girls a few times and one of them wants a relationship even after I've said I'm not ready. She invites herself over because she is friends with a SPAM. I stopped sleeping with her but still think it's super awkward bringing other girls by when she's always around/calling to hang out.

General Question: how do let someone down easy? I have to be careful because of my SPAM.

Author:  pumpington [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 1:32 am ]
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*shrugs* she knows the deal, you made it clear, just sleep with her, if you made it clear you don't want an relationship then what's the problem?

Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 2:00 am ]
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maybe she's down for threesomes

Author:  0dysseus [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Thanks, guys!

I appreciate your replies. It seems like as long as I'm honest with her, I just have to let her down hard if soft doesn't work. However, I liked the last comment.. since it doesn't matter what happens between myself and her, why not ask her if she wants to have a threesome? The way I see it, it can go either way:

"Ummm.. no thanks. That's gross. Asshole" (and she loses interest, perfect)

or

"Idk, I've never thought about it. I guess in the right situation..." (And I take it from there)

Is there something I've overlooked?

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