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Author:  afcme123 [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  She backed out... What do I say?

I had a date set up tonight and the girl (who is moving today) texted me
"ahhhhh afc... I got a late start today and it looks like I won't be able to move in and go tonight :( thanks for the offer. It sounded fun"

How should I reply?

Author:  Chris2k10 [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 6:58 pm ]
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"Just let me know when you're free, how bout next week?"

Don't let her off the hook so easy.

Author:  JacquesMaurice [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 7:14 pm ]
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Remain normal, don't react as if it phased you in any way. Acknowledge her reply but leave the conversation at that (in a kind way, no giving the cold shoulder!) Leave it for a few days and then re-open her and re-frame instantly to a high emotion state - reference something cool you have shared/flirted over for instance. Gauge her response, if she is receptive and is buying into the frame then sort out a meeting but not in a high pressure date scenario.

"I'm heading into town today to pick up some things, you fancy tagging along? I'll even let you buy me a coffee/milkshake/cocktail" for example if you have a C/F angle to your game. The important thing is make it something that you are going to do anyway regardless of if she is coming or not!

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