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Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:06 am ]
Post subject:  Hb 10 ask for my number.Some Texting - Need Help!
Hey Guys,
This HB by far the best girl I've ever met and number closed.I saw this group of hb 9's and 10's who were stylish and I can say they checked me out too. After a while, I approached one of them which was gorgeous in every term.
So she was interested enough in me that although she was with the group of her friends I almost isolated her and separated from the group.
The only downside was that we just talked for about 5 mins and one of her friends insisted to come over. Anyways,
she told me: I have to join my friend give me your number or join my friends too?
So I think I should've joined the group by it was kind a intimidating. Anyway, we exchanged number and I told her at the end: don't forget me and she said :no!
I knew I didn't establish enough comfort but she was so interested in me that she asked for my number and she gave me so much IOIs.
So she is not so responsive in text. I got her number on Friday:
My texts :
Friday night :
Me: Get home Safe.
Saturday afeternoon:
Me:I hope you are smiling if not just think of me!
HB: :)
Sunday night:
Me: I hope you've had a great weekend so far.
Monday night:
ME:Hey sweetie,so I am luring girls in to me house with candy, which do your prefer skittles or M&ms?

No answer so far. I got all of the text from forum. To be honest, I really like this girl and I've been happy the whole weekend because of getting her number and I know she and even her friends were interested in me.
I still have not called her. Can you comment my texts and tell me what's the best thing I can do at this point? I know I may have lost her but I don't want to quit on her since she is really worth it.
I really appreciated your help guys!
Author:  Boyo [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:26 am ]
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Hmm..i can see a few mistakes here. Ever heard of keepig balance between texts?
The general rule being you shouldnt send more than you recieve. If you look back, it looks really needy and apparant you want to talk to her and you're throwing the attention she expects.

The last text is alright.. Personally i find it a tad creepy. But it should of
Been sent much earlier. Chief made a great suggestion of: use texting as a form of meeting up, nothing more, especially not to build rapport! (search it in the forums, its a great read).

As for recovery...its a tough one. I would go cold turkey and forget her for a week, then drop a text asking plain and straight for a coffee or summit. To get the girl you must be willing to lose her! You are the one on the
Podium! You are the one she should be chasing!

Good luck with whatever you do and get rid of that oneitis

Best Regards,

Boyo
Author:  Night_ [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:30 am ]
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i dont know but somthing's bothering me with ur first text "get home safe" ..
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:46 am ]
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@night: I think it's good text after getting #. Usually hb says thanks afterward, Tell me what you don't like about it?

@Boyo:
My problem with this Hb is that she is so cute that I know she has so many options and I didn't have enough time to spend with her. I am kinda random guy now that impressed her enough.
I know I may look like a needy guy in text but I don't like her to forget me. Also I think asking her out by texting is not a good idea and never works.
I think texting is enough for now and I should call her. I know probably she won't answer me and it's going on voice mail. So I want to leave some good message for her.
What do you think guys?
Author:  Night_ [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:56 am ]
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well mate, according to what you said - she showed interest when she met you.
then personally i wouldnt be so worried.
about the text - i find it a bit needy..i dunno how you reacted when you met her and what is your personality..i think i was skipping the "get home safe" text and just text her the day after and trying to set up a date..

"get home safe" text after 5 min of conversation sounds a bit heavy (but that's for me..im not a PUA)..
about the rest of the text, i have to agree with Boyo. it looks needy when you keep texting her and giving her way too much attention.
btw i find the last text a bit creepy too but hey, if thats what was on ur mind and you said it thats the spirit :-)

again, im not a PUA , im new but these are my opinions :> GL
Author:  Blown_Away [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 6:20 am ]
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Quote:
about the text - i find it a bit needy..i dunno how you reacted when you met her and what is your personality..i think i was skipping the "get home safe" text and just text her the day after and trying to set up a date..
I would do this.
Same night:
Quote:
Anyway, we exchanged number and I told her at the end: don't forget me and she said :no!
So needy...

It looks like you messed it up already with the early texting and the following texts which honestly are very lame to me.
If you wanna give a last try. I would leave her alone for 3-4 days, and tehn call her about Thu or Fri to ask her out fro a coffee or beer, and eventually club if the coffee is going well.
Let us know what happen, after you call.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 6:46 am ]
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@Blown_Away :
Yeah, I was so needy. But I was so confident about my impression on her and her friends. I saw jealousy in her friends. Some thing funny happened one day after meeting her too. On Saturday night ,one hb came to me in a bar and told me
HB:"I know you. you talked to my girl friend last night."
Me:Wow, yeah I remember you. Is she here tonight?
HB: she is staying home tonight.
ME: ok say hi to her for me.
( I couldn't talk to her enough since she was with some guys and about to leave)
So anyways, I think If i want to meet her I ,I have to talk to her until Wednesday to meet her on Thursday.Since hot hbs have plans for weekends so probably Friday or Saturday is late.
Any help is appreciated!
Author:  $hane [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 8:00 am ]
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Here is something to remember the hottest girls are usually a little easier to game.

When you call her be confident she wants you so let it happen.

good luck
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 8:08 am ]
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if you meet a girl, and you find her very attractive, and shit is all glorious and going amazing, escalate

if you don't screen, you won't know, and a phone number means less, when she is less invested
Author:  Blown_Away [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:41 pm ]
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Quote:
Monday night:
ME:Hey sweetie,so I am luring girls in to me house with candy, which do your prefer skittles or M&ms?
Quote:
I would leave her alone for 3-4 days, and then call her.
Quote:
So anyways, I think If i want to meet her I have to talk to her until Wednesday to meet her on Thursday.Since hot hbs have plans for weekends so probably Friday
WTF?!? :-D
If the girl likes you she will find time to meet don't think what plans she has. Think about your plans!
Author:  lukeyx [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 8:33 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
Anyway, we exchanged number and I told her at the end: don't forget me and she said :no!

So needy...
This^
Quote:
Me: Get home Safe.
you need to text her something more situational that happened that night.
Quote:
Me:I hope you are smiling if not just think of me!
HB: :D
you have no attraction/comfort what so ever, this will not work.
Quote:
Me: I hope you've had a great weekend so far.
to needy.
Quote:
ME:Hey sweetie,so I am luring girls in to me house with candy, which do your prefer skittles or M&ms?
this is to creepy, especially considering uve text her 3 days in a row prior and only had one reply. This can work in general but not in this situation, you need to build rapport first

I would of text her after, just a couple of texts back of fourth and ignored her last text then rang her the next day. Then i'd asked her if she was free in 2-3 days(a specific day though), if she said no and changed the day i would of tell her id see if i could squeeze her in and let her know, regardless of whether i was free or not.
Quote:
Since hot hbs have plans for weekends so probably Friday or Saturday is late.
you need to put urself before her, why are u making arrangements on her behalf rather than urs? if she wants to meet you then she will meet u regardless

Quote:
HB:"I know you. you talked to my girl friend last night."
Me:Wow, yeah I remember you. Is she here tonight?
HB: she is staying home tonight.
ME: ok say hi to her for me.
you might be able to use this to ur advantage, text the HB saying 'you getting ur friends to stalk me now?' or something similar in a playful manor.

For now, go and pick up other girls and stop focusing on one girl, thats probably your biggest problem.
Author:  juvx [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 9:48 pm ]
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Holy shit where should i begin???? HB10s (I doubt shes a 10 first of all 10 means victora secret model. but anyways) aren't much different then HB8s in fact some are easier to game because of this one fact... Guys are intimidated by extreme beautify. They fuck up. like you did. Mate you are coming off as "too nice".. Ever heard of nice guys finish last? well its partially true. You dont have to be an asshole but never text "Hope you got home safe" again... Its something a girl would say to you. Its just not manly. Im not trying to insult you, just trying to help.
Suggestions:
No more texts unless you texts you.
Call her, keep it short and ask her out. To dinner or to some drinks. I personally dont like the coffee thing because if it goes well its harder to escalate to sex from chillen at a cafe... like really really hard. Only way iv ever done it is to change venues from cafe to park, to bar. too much work for me. lol

Just one more point. You'd be surprised how many gorgeous girls NEVER have plans for the weekend. Most just do the same old shit and just call their friends and go out or hang out. DONT ASSUME ANYTHING. Also when you ask her out. Ask in this format. "Lets grab some dinner, pick you up at 8?" NOT "would you like to have some dinner with me" Understand? very very important.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 10:43 pm ]
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@juvx: lol Dude yeah she is not the 10 you think. But I've never seen victoria secret model in bar either. but these groups of girls were all great that got the attention of whole bar. I was the only guy who had the ball to approach them immediately.
About the text "get home safe". I've found this text from this forum and it works usually well. It shows the HB you are gentleman and at the same time it's good opener for texting. I've used it several times and it usually works but maybe I should text other things based on the situation.
Author:  Criss hell [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 11:18 pm ]
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@lukeyx:
Thank you for analyzing my texts and situation. I've blown up so many numbers and girls so far and I really wanna focus on specific girl for now to get better in closing.

After thinking about what happened between me and her, I realized I made a mistake about my state with her. I think I was in the comfort the whole time.
So what happened was they saw me in the bar, standing alone. So to raise my value, I opened a set of 2 hbs( I can say they were 7 and I was not interested in them) in front of the set of these hb 9-10s.I number closed one of them in 2 mins. I am pretty sure my target set observing me the whole time.
Immediately , after leaving the first set I approached my target girl. I used a good opener and I tried to walk away from the set to see if she is moving toward me and leaving the set. She did!
I kino her the whole time and We talked about where we are from and since I am not native, she told me she loves my country and wants to travel there and we talked about traveling etc... for a while.
Then she asked what I do etc.. I talked about my job and at the end To DHV I told her I am a swimmer too and showed my biceps ( I know it's lame but it works great). I intentionally ask her to touch it to see her mood and how much compliance I get . She grabbed it really hard and said "WOW nice!"
I asked about her job and we talked for a while and the last thing I remember is asking what her dream job would be and she described her dream job and I tried to relate to her and told her at the end "omg, you are my dream girl. Where have you been?"
I saw smile on her face. and that's when her friend yelled at her to come over. At this point she told me what's my number and you know the rest.
I think before approaching the attraction was there and I was in comfort the whole time. It sounds stupid but I felt a great connection with her that time.
I think the only thing I messed up is the text part so far and I think there is a way to recover.

I think she is emotional since : when I told her , you are my dream girl ... I saw attraction in her eyes. Also, the only text she answered was the second one which was " hope you are smiling if not just think of me! " and her response : ":-)"

So maybe sending some emotional text would relive her emotions through me.
Also, meeting her friend would be another good approach to go.
But generally, I am pretty sure I can go somewhere with this girl if I do it right.What do you think guys?
Author:  Night_ [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 11:24 pm ]
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Let her cool off few days and then send her a text..if she answers try to set up a date..
if she doesn't answer, fuck her, there are million girl prettier than her :-)
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