I wouldn't want to take a female friend from the friend zone to the bedroom just once, or try to make a girlfriend out of her, but you can try to turn "friends" into friends with benefits.
I've done this two ways: Slow transition and caveman. If the person is open minded, a slow transition will get you an MLTR (assuming that you can find other people to fuck) that allows you to keep the friendship and fuck regularly, if not, it won't work and you'll have to give up. Caveman is better if you don't care that much about the friendship you have with this person because the result is unpredictable.
1: slow transition
I started by gradually becoming more sexual in the conversations that you have with this person in private--talking alone, text, email, whatever. Become one of the people she can talk to about sex (most women want to talk abut sex to someone, but don't feel comfortable talking about it with anyone). You'll find out what she likes, and think of you when she thinks about sex, treating it all as lessons. Build attraction as much as you can. Then sometime you're alone together, add in kino. Stress how much you can learn from each other.
Manage Expectations! Make sure that its clear that you don't want this to turn into dating, but that you are good friends, and are obviously attracted to each other, so why not also have sex? You can trust each other more than some random person you met in a bar, can't you? No need to pretend at any love stuff or plans for the future. Both of you can see other people, and either of you can call off the benefits at any time.
2: Caveman
When you're around your target, signal interest in nonverbal ways. Get caught looking at her tits, brush up against her body "accidentally", eye contact longer than usual. If she reacts to these by distancing herself from you or acting creeped out, this won't work. When I did this, the target blushed or did nothing, which I took as a sign to proceed.
Then, sometime when you're alone, but she is not necessarily expecting it, suddenly go for a kiss and aggressive kino. The way I did this was in a library, sitting on the floor touching with the target, reading the same book. I suddenly put my hand on the page, leaned in, and said "HB_ingenue, you know I stopped reading a long time ago" grabbing her, and pulling her into a kiss. After the kiss, she answered with a breathless "yes," and we made out rolling on the floor for several minutes, before some teenage kid saw us, gasped, and ran off, which was our cue to go someplace less public.
The final result of Caveman method will depend on your target. If you have managed to get her interested in you, it should work well. If not she will interpret it as creeptastic, which is why I recommend you start small with your lecherous behavior and build on it. You can gage the reaction and decide whether to proceed. If you go straight for the last stage and she isn't attracted, or expecting it this would border on sexual assault.
Also, after suddenly getting physical, the way things will progress will progress will depend on the target. She may fuck you once and then avoid you. She may want to start dating. If you manage expectations, you can decide the outcome more, but with this method, you will have a bit of a wildcard.
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