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Author:  v00owen [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 11:33 am ]
Post subject:  Getting her number from her friend
Just wondering what you guys would do in this situation:

Background:
Went to friends House party, these two were random people on my friends contact list who came. Hit it off with 1 of them, attraction was there. They kinda vanished whilst I was chatting to a mate (She was quite drunk and her friend probably made her go home). Got her friends number from the host and she knew it was me; directly asked for girls number. She said hold on ill ask, we chatted a bit longer and then i left it at that, but she forgot about the number. I waited a day then hit her up again (AFC whatever I didn't care) and directly asked again (fuck games!) told me her friend broke her phone that night, which I can understand.
Then I had a deep chat to her friend about her looking after her well and bla bla she needs a friend like her :D (at the start of the night her friend called me a player and was negative so I kinda spoke to her emotionally to clear things up)

This is where I'm stuck and just wondered what you guys would do now.
I plan on leaving it and seeing if her friend will hit me up when its fixed if not maybe wait a week or so and just chat to her friend.

Things to add:
- I was drinking and foolishly left out getting her number early on. (It was 100% if i asked)
- I was on the phone at one point and said "I love you too" to my bro jokingly and her friend look at her and said "he has a girlfriend!" i could see her face drop

Only asking cause I want to improve myself / not been in this situation before.

Cheers guys, any criticism/advice is welcomed!
Author:  Synth. [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 12:21 pm ]
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hmmm this is actually a tough one to answer but honestly, I think you blew it if you asked her friend for her number, what you should probably have done is looked the girl up on facebook or something and asked her personally after you have a chat for a while and show that your not a player (coz lets face it, her friend probably told her you were coz she was drunk and maybe didn't remember you fully). But take this and learn from your experience! At least next time you definitely will remember to number close! drunk or not it will come into your head that you fucked up before that you don't want to fuck up again!

So basically i think you should get back on your horse and move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea!

Lambo.
Author:  Entourages [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:59 pm ]
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You live once fuck it, who cares if you get the girl or not. Ask her friend for her number but joke about it so she is light in mood. Be like listen I need your number, I will stalk you at endless hours of the day, call you 100 times until you say yes. (obviously say "her" instead of "you")

Point is be light and witty but your stilling getting the number. I just did this with a different girl, instead I was speaking directly to her. She had 0% interest in giving me her number, I was gaming her friend, she was cuter, my wingman failed so I figured I go for the kill, spoke to her for maybe 1 min, got the number though after I said that line. She laughed and said fine your funny your not that type of guy.

Be a boss!
Author:  v00owen [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 3:33 pm ]
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Here's the thing, She doesnt have facebook, and I probably wont see her again for a long time. Entourages yeah thats what im like naturally anyway (not a stalker :D) but not take anything seriously.

Exactly what im thinking about who cares, If i don't just go for it I'll never know if I went to far or not, to be honest I don't care if I blow it as long as I tried, naww what am sayin !?
Author:  Entourages [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 4:23 am ]
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yea... so go do it!
Author:  Synth. [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 8:43 am ]
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yeh man, if you don't try your not going to get her! and if you wont see her for a long time then why would it matter? if it doesn't work, it doesn't work, but least you gave it a shot! take the punch and move on to the next one =) let us know how you get on anyway man
Author:  v00owen [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 2:12 pm ]
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God I hate asking for help :D

So there was a flaw in what you said entourage :D
I've been thinking of what to say for a few days but nothing good sprung to mind so I decided to use your line (Ill explain things as i write it):

Me: Tell hb I need her number, I will stalk her at endless hours of the day, call her 100 times a day until she says yes.. :D I sent it thinking fuck it, I hate that i copied it word for word too lol. Later on I'll regret it.
Friend: Says yes about what?:S
Me: I haven't decided.. We'll see ;)
Friend: She has a boyfriend This is where I was like shit, I've come off the total opposite I need to be to pull this off. saying ill stalk her if she has a boyfriend doesn't quite say we can be discreet about it and he wont find out now does it :D (cheers entourage haha!)
Me:WOW really?!! I've got a cat, what's that got to do with anything?
Me being a total afc used the wrong approach to this.
then radio silence, i hate when they do that.

it also tells me she's read it :P

Its been about an hour.

feedback?
Author:  electric gypsy [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 3:20 pm ]
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as much as it TOTALLY FUCKIN SUCKS i think this one is over. you could wiat for the reply and go from there. if the boyfriend is brought up, say look i really wasnt looking at this situation like that. i vibed with you and just thought you were a really cool girl and just wanted to chill with you sometime. when this occurs, friendzone the hb and use her to get to her friends...
Author:  Entourages [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 8:38 pm ]
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I dont see how my line didnt work, you got a response... I would have went for a funny line, I mean she has a bf this is her friend who probably doesnt want you with her regardless if she does or not... I would just have been like

God thats awkward, I hope the boyfriend doesnt pick up when I call her, hopefully hes friendly.

something of that nature, I mean why not, just be boss and keep in that frame.
Author:  v00owen [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 10:14 pm ]
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Ya it looks like I lost my frame but really I wrote that without a care in the world.

Cheers for the responses guys I really appreciate it, had a long chat with pumpington about this on chat and it really helped improve myself and my views.

Ill keep an eye out for any posts you might have :)
Author:  Entourages [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 12:29 am ]
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Good luck, and remember always wear a suit!
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