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Author:  Rexus [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Recovery needed - how to respond to this?
Hi all,

Met this girl over a week ago through a friend of mine at someone's birthday celebration/night out. We got on really well etc, I could tell she liked me and I quite liked her too. We were talking for large parts of the night and there was plenty of kino from me to which she was entirely comfortable with. A bit later during the night, I was quite proud of myself in that I actually went for it (something I don't usually do) and went into kiss her. I could see she was hesitant at the time so as I had my hand around her head/neck, I pulled her in to kiss her on the cheek instead of the lips, to which she then smiled. Therefore, she clearly knows what my intentions are and that I'm interested.

Later at the end of the night, apparently she had been asking our mutual friend about me (this is referred to in our facebook messages).

I added her on facebook the next day (as we had both been tagged in a post) and then a couple of days ago sent her a message. After a very positive couple of replies from her, I sent her this last night - I have put some explanations in brackets so the conversation makes sense.

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I reckon Sarah (our mutual friend) told her lol and if the girls warned u about my lines I wonder what else u were asking...

U really need to work on ur charm :P Though ur sarcasm does come naturally!

Coq d'argent (this is a rooftop bar I went to on Friday which she was asking about) was awesome, it's becoming my local! Have u been since ur a City girl ;)

Weird to be back home and nice to see everyone, such a different world (I moved to London a couple of months ago for a new job)

Not been to any Olympic events yet but yeah I probably should go as it's once in a life time. What u trying to go and see?

By the way, fuck facebook lol, what's ur number?
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She then replied tonight with this:
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Haha don't flatter urself! We have more pressing matters to discuss,like hair and make up!

My charm is second to none ...I can't help it if you don't appreciate my spelling of your profession :P (I work at a bank and she was saying I'm a banker with a W)

Me? City girl? I have a soul thank you! Lol nah I have been there to take in the view a couple of times,always a gd spot to take the tourists!

Why such a different world?

I'm gonna go to the men's marathon on Sunday to perve on the athletes! Trying to get tickets for anything really, volleyball,hockey,athletics.

I'm not allowed to give my number to strangers. Sarah says ur strange (clearly a joke here)
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As you can see, she rejected my attempt to get her number. Seems there is still interest there but it could be better. What would you reply to her from here? Would you attempt to get her number again after a few more back and forth messages, tease her about not giving me her number, or just try and sort out a date on facebook asap?
Author:  Rockso [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 10:13 pm ]
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I'd just Teasing her and using some push/pull t pump some attraction. Also, to the phone thing I'd say something like " Wow, you sound just like a kid who's worried about stranger danger! ;)" or "At least Sarah is being a good parent and keeping you safe (because all the parents tell their kids not to talk to strangers) cause we both know, I'm Too much trouble for you ;)"

Don't seem like you care that you didn't get her number, act as if it never even happened and try again later. You can ask some other time like "I'm off Facebook now, youre not too scared to give your number to a "stranger" now are you? ;)"

Good luck and take care! :)
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 11:29 pm ]
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avoid qualifying yourself to her in these initial meetups,

instead of getting her number, arrange a date, keep chatting her up

if she agrees to meetup then the number is irrelevant, you get it or you don't who cares, it's not her phone number your after it's her
Author:  Rexus [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:09 pm ]
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I'd just Teasing her and using some push/pull t pump some attraction. Also, to the phone thing I'd say something like " Wow, you sound just like a kid who's worried about stranger danger! ;)" or "At least Sarah is being a good parent and keeping you safe (because all the parents tell their kids not to talk to strangers) cause we both know, I'm Too much trouble for you ;)"

Don't seem like you care that you didn't get her number, act as if it never even happened and try again later. You can ask some other time like "I'm off Facebook now, youre not too scared to give your number to a "stranger" now are you? ;)"

Good luck and take care! :)
Thanks both Rockso and pumpington for your answers. I replied to her yesterday and included something similar to "we both know I'm too much trouble for you". I got another fairly good reply to this so all is not lost. I will try and arrange a date after a bit more banter with her.
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