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Author:  borgy95 [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 6:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Closing off sexual relationships

As i've been pua'ing more and more and getting better, and i glad to report developing many more sexual relationships...

i eventually wana end them though... as i don't want a relationship... at the same time often the friendship around it is worth mantaining espcially as cute girls have cute friends...

So how do you guys go about ending it... Obv there is a complete freeze out method but is there anything more effective that doesnt burn the bridge?

Author:  LD [ Tue Aug 07, 2012 8:57 pm ]
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Hey mate,

Did you tell them it was purely sexual right from the start? That helps a lot :).

I am more of direct kind of guy. So i tell girls/women what it is i want and what i dont want. they either accept and fuck or they dont. No surprises when something ends, no scenes nor exaggerated drama.

Just a warning though: some people just hear what they want to hear. I have had one very bad experience. I had told her that i wasnt looking for an LTR. And so when i met somebody who i fell for, she actively sabotaged the relationship. SHe told me she thought i just wouldnt admit the fact that i was actually in love with her.

Therefor, when i go out to meet people, there is one of two things i never do.

1) Or i never fuck without getting to know the girl better. I need to know if she is sexy, if she has an idea of good sex, if she is patient and also in the meanwhile figuring out if she has low self esteem or not. If she has low self esteem, she can screw herself....

2) Or when i do intend on fucking like the same night, i never say truthfully who i am, where i work or give her anything that makes her able to contact me again.

Sounds drastic, but the shit i have been through makes a man cautious enough.

I hope it helped in some way :)

cheers!

Author:  borgy95 [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 11:55 am ]
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Cheers LD hadnt thought of laying it flat out from the start...

As this has only become an issue recently since i have started trying to reduce my one night stands in exchange for short term sexual relationships.

guess i need to re-evaluate how i bring down their anti-slut defence ahead of laying the frame of sexual only...

any tips on that?

SPAM i tend to try and build trust etc which i achieve but it is obviously giving off the vibe there is the possibility for more.

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