PUA Forum :: status problem

read the beginning of 'attraction code', knew the status from your social group is what girls are looking for.
but if you are doing pickups on stranger girls, how do you make you interested, do they decide whether to talk to you by your status or something else(appearance)? how to improve that?

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everything man, how good looking you are, how you dress, how you walk, how you talk, with in about 30 seconds a girl can descide if she would eventually sleep with you or not, the more value you are projecting on first impression, the more likely the girl is to give you the benifit of the doubt without problems, but it is not one specific thing, value is subjective from girl to girl as they all have a different idea of what is valuable (but generally confidence is universal)

step to that chick fucking correct, and it is likely she will respond correct, one way or another she will know if you know

step to her all unsure of yourself, she won't be sure of you either

so, dress nice, smell nice, try to improve your looks as best you can, get your posture good, good eye contact, clear confident voice, relax, the more confidence in your surroundings you are projecting while going into set, the better, if you take care of yourself and believe in yourself, it is likely that others do as well, also social proof that demonstrates the ques to PROOF, that you have some social status, PROOF, that people respect you, this can also help you

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Thx Pump, I also want to know how long it will take a person to have a status as cool as you described. how long did it took you to become who you are now?

Author:	xuezongwanli [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 12:24 am ]
Post subject:	status problem
read the beginning of 'attraction code', knew the status from your social group is what girls are looking for. but if you are doing pickups on stranger girls, how do you make you interested, do they decide whether to talk to you by your status or something else(appearance)? how to improve that?

Author:	pumpington [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: status problem
Quote: read the beginning of 'attraction code', knew the status from your social group is what girls are looking for. but if you are doing pickups on stranger girls, how do you make you interested, do they decide whether to talk to you by your status or something else(appearance)? how to improve that? everything man, how good looking you are, how you dress, how you walk, how you talk, with in about 30 seconds a girl can descide if she would eventually sleep with you or not, the more value you are projecting on first impression, the more likely the girl is to give you the benifit of the doubt without problems, but it is not one specific thing, value is subjective from girl to girl as they all have a different idea of what is valuable (but generally confidence is universal) step to that chick fucking correct, and it is likely she will respond correct, one way or another she will know if you know step to her all unsure of yourself, she won't be sure of you either so, dress nice, smell nice, try to improve your looks as best you can, get your posture good, good eye contact, clear confident voice, relax, the more confidence in your surroundings you are projecting while going into set, the better, if you take care of yourself and believe in yourself, it is likely that others do as well, also social proof that demonstrates the ques to PROOF, that you have some social status, PROOF, that people respect you, this can also help you

Author:	xuezongwanli [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: status problem
Quote: Quote: read the beginning of 'attraction code', knew the status from your social group is what girls are looking for. but if you are doing pickups on stranger girls, how do you make you interested, do they decide whether to talk to you by your status or something else(appearance)? how to improve that? everything man, how good looking you are, how you dress, how you walk, how you talk, with in about 30 seconds a girl can descide if she would eventually sleep with you or not, the more value you are projecting on first impression, the more likely the girl is to give you the benifit of the doubt without problems, but it is not one specific thing, value is subjective from girl to girl as they all have a different idea of what is valuable (but generally confidence is universal) step to that chick fucking correct, and it is likely she will respond correct, one way or another she will know if you know step to her all unsure of yourself, she won't be sure of you either so, dress nice, smell nice, try to improve your looks as best you can, get your posture good, good eye contact, clear confident voice, relax, the more confidence in your surroundings you are projecting while going into set, the better, if you take care of yourself and believe in yourself, it is likely that others do as well, also social proof that demonstrates the ques to PROOF, that you have some social status, PROOF, that people respect you, this can also help you Thx Pump, I also want to know how long it will take a person to have a status as cool as you described. how long did it took you to become who you are now?

Author:	pumpington [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 5:17 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: status problem
Quote: Quote: Quote: read the beginning of 'attraction code', knew the status from your social group is what girls are looking for. but if you are doing pickups on stranger girls, how do you make you interested, do they decide whether to talk to you by your status or something else(appearance)? how to improve that? everything man, how good looking you are, how you dress, how you walk, how you talk, with in about 30 seconds a girl can descide if she would eventually sleep with you or not, the more value you are projecting on first impression, the more likely the girl is to give you the benifit of the doubt without problems, but it is not one specific thing, value is subjective from girl to girl as they all have a different idea of what is valuable (but generally confidence is universal) step to that chick fucking correct, and it is likely she will respond correct, one way or another she will know if you know step to her all unsure of yourself, she won't be sure of you either so, dress nice, smell nice, try to improve your looks as best you can, get your posture good, good eye contact, clear confident voice, relax, the more confidence in your surroundings you are projecting while going into set, the better, if you take care of yourself and believe in yourself, it is likely that others do as well, also social proof that demonstrates the ques to PROOF, that you have some social status, PROOF, that people respect you, this can also help you Thx Pump, I also want to know how long it will take a person to have a status as cool as you described. how long did it took you to become who you are now? status is subjective from person to person, and how much status you hold and how quick it takes you to change this, is also subjective how hard do you work on it, what is your idea of status?, what do you want to achieve you can always work towards your goals and improve, but the rate of improvement is going to be dependant on the person, and how much effort they put into it, some people will just naturally improve at a faster rate, while others while stagnate and improve slowly as for me, how long did it take me to become me? my whole life

Author:	RandomX [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 6:36 pm ]
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The easiest way to display high value is to HAVE high value. When people go thru "schit" in their lives they gain experience and character. Women can smell this for miles, it's in the way you walk, talk. You have a steadyness and grounding that other men don't have, and that women need. "Game" is putting your best foot forward, accentuating the character and experience you do have. If you know how to dress well, that's a skill. It proves your value. If you know how to dance well, that's a skill. It proves your value. If you're in great shape, that's a skill. It proves your value. If you're good at speaking ^^ If you know how to play the guitar ^^ In the social setting everything is about proving value. Nobody wants to hang out with a bum, lazy, loser, etc. Your appearance and grooming is part of your status.

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Author:	Deadeyexx [ Mon Aug 06, 2012 7:16 pm ]
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Think of status for the short term as momentum. 60 years of challenge explains it pretty well in his material. But it's basically how interactive you are and that the energy you generate is positive. The best example of this I've seen was at a bar where the guy entered in thru the back door. He shook hands and joked with everyone as he made his way up to the front. Took about 20 minutes in all to travel 100 feet. At the front there were a couple of girls that were shooting pool. He talked to them for a couple minutes, asked if they wanted to leave with him, and they went. His positive energy was that magnetic. You don't need to construct a social life you never cared for. Just learn to have a couple minute conversation and do it with everybody.

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