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Author:  Will181 [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 10:13 pm ]
Post subject:  If she asks how many people I've slept with....

Now I am 21 and I have slept with 22 girls in my life-time.

This is something I regret as a high number such as this was 'cool' when i was 18.

Anyway, I made progress with some girl a few weeks back and since then it has fizzled out to nothing. We had no intention of being an 'item' in the relationship but the way things were going, sex looked on the agenda, until i told her how many people i'd slept with, she seemed put off and seemed to believe I was using her as another 'number'.

Just wandering, anyone else ever had girls put off by the number they've slept with and if so what did you do? Good idea to lie if its not going to be a serious relationship or not?

Any advice/replies would be appreciated

Author:  Wall1e [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 10:25 pm ]
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I believe Style mentioned in his book The Game that ONLY THEN u are allowed to lie. lets replace in her shoes. U just heard that ur sleeping with someone who had sex with 22 girls andd only is 21 years. I believe it would sure scare me. But it also depends on personality.

Author:  870 [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 12:09 am ]
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A gentleman never kisses and tells.

Your boy,
870

Author:  Chiasmata [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 1:05 am ]
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I've never had anyone ask prior to us being in a relationship. My number isn't astronomically high, but they assumed it was going to be so it didn't have any negative affect.

Author:  kaala [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 2:44 am ]
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This is something very personal which I keep only to myself. A gentleman never tells.

Author:  GKS [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:04 am ]
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"Enough to know how to make your toes curl ;)"

Author:  Jimsonator11 [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:12 am ]
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First off good work haha that's not an astronomically high number but that's nothing bad either by far. I agree with what was previously said somewhat though. If you're forced to talk about it then lie. You don't want to come off as a complete virgin but you don't really want to give the exact number. One I the big things about PUAs is we are good at not letting people know we are PUAs when flirting with em, so the best PUAs are the humble ones in this case. Of course I could be wrong haha

Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 3:33 am ]
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Quote:
"Enough to know how to make your toes curl ;)"
"Enough to give you chlamydia"

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 4:06 am ]
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No clue, the moment, desire, and passion mattered far more than adding a notch to my belt.

I really don't have a clue how many I have slept with (not that it is some exorbitant number). It doesn't matter to me, so this is an honest answer.

You can also reply:

Sharing mistakes I've made before meeting you aren't something that should matter. What matters is the moment we are having together.

Are you saying I'm not a gentlemen? Because a gentlemen never tells.

870 is spot on with his statement. Its not something you should tell and frankly it doesn't matter.

Peace and Love

Vic

Author:  will29 [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:04 am ]
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You slept with 22 girls and you're 21. Why exactly are you here?

Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 10:14 am ]
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Cannot remember who it was but someone once said

"never give a women a straight answer to any question that she asks unless you are telling her no! "

Good advise all round IMHO :)

Author:  SimplyNotAwesome [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 2:26 pm ]
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Can't agree with that fully, only 50%. Saying no when you mean no - great. Fluffing about something instead of giving straight answer seems strange.

I would really like to know where this fashion came from to fake something, to be indirect or so. It actually just makes things harder.

You can keep women interested in you by having interesting personality and lifestyle.

As for the question about count - my answer is simple - it doesn't matter.

Author:  Don Draper [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 7:16 pm ]
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Quote:
A gentleman never kisses and tells.
Routine reply. Timeless. And works like a charm.

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