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Author:  baltazar [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 7:06 am ]
Post subject:  Ex girlfriend dating another man
I broke up with my girlfriend for about 4 months, and try with all
wrong stuff to Get Her Back such as begging, crying, stalker her,
logic ((
After a month she went to another man, she said that she wants to
forget me and that she dont love him, that she still has feelings for
me ... Now after almost months and half of her new relationship their
friends told me that she fell in love with him. How can that be
possible? is that rebound or she really over me?

During that time i went in NO CONTACT, just to heal myself so i could
continue with plan of getting her back. I still love her a lot, but
now i m not lead with emotions so i can do better things. I go a lot
out, spend time with my friends and talk with other girls. But,
few days ago i was in caffe bar with friend and my friend calls her best
friend and her to join us for our table. My ex seat near me and we
start talking, i just tease her and make her laugh. She even not
resist if i touch her. Now i m confused, it seams that her body
language accept that .

I didnt talk about us and past, i just thinking if i try to get somehow
in her life again and be patience, i could take her over.
During last 7 days i got in similar situations, twice i had contact with her also seating near her and talking. I try to be cold, to show no interest but its very hard. Also i must say that she slept with him after one week of their relationship, ohhh fark, that hurt me a lot!!
When i visit her facebook profile i always see status where she express love and songs about love :( Can anyone help me determine if she over me?

btw, that new dude give her everything i hadn't, he takes her at lots of diffrent places, calls her 20 times per day, blah, blah,blah and so on ...
Author:  pumpington [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 7:55 am ]
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nope you are being needy, if it didn't work out the first time, you can bet even if there is a second time, it won't work out

forget her, everything will be ok, move on, improve, meet new women, get back to what you enjoy doing, dwelling on this girl and the past will do nothing productive for you besides cause you more emotional investment into her, and that will just make it all the more difficult to move on and improve yourself, let it go, she already has, she has already moved on, she is not sitting at night thinking about you, reguardless of what she says she is with a new guy and has moved on, actions speak louder then words, time for you to go out and meet some new girls, start some new hobbies, try some new things and get on with your life
Author:  baltazar [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 8:45 am ]
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you'r right, but i m not still over her. I would like her by my side, but it seems that i lost her forever ... I thought she is the one! Dunno, should i try something to get her back? is it right time now or i should wait until their "honeymoon" past?
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 3:54 pm ]
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there is no "The One"

there are 7 billion people on this planet.

if that girl was "The One" she would likely be so perfect for you, that the two of you would morph into one being and have never argued, never fought, never got sick of one another, and never-ever broke up.

you need to value yourself more than you value her affection.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 4:18 pm ]
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Respect her choice. If she wants another man, that's her decision not yours. Find another girl. :twisted:
Author:  baltazar [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 6:00 pm ]
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Ok, i see and i will find another girl :) i just wonder is it possible to get her back? just wondering what you guys should do if you want your ex back?

I read all material, i want to be better in this stuff and get other girls :)
Author:  SimplyNotAwesome [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 8:01 pm ]
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If I wanted to get my ex back, I would bang 5 next chicks and think again. If that didn't help to get her back, I would bang 5 more chicks and check again.
Author:  cerebralassassin [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 9:46 pm ]
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youve got oneitis

to be blunt you can get over it and move on, be miserable you aint with her and become a recluse or get back with her!!

its your option all yours
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 10:47 pm ]
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Take your phone and replace her name from whatever it is to August 29.

Don't send her any message or call until August 29th, one month from now.

You can say whatever you like to her, but only after that date. Take this time to fall off the face of the earth. Self-improvement is your only goal during this time. If she doesn't try and get ahold of you during this month-long sabbatical, you can evaluate whether you even want to say anything.

If she is "the One" and all the effort is coming from your end, what's in it for you?
Author:  baltazar [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:00 pm ]
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now i m in contact with her. We exchange PM on Facebook. I think that she never shows him what she does on fb. i asked her how she is and so on ... At one point i ask her if she want to go for drink so we can chat. She said that we can do texting but it is not possible to go for an drink. I asked her is that boyfriend not allowing her to see with me and she reply me that he allow her everything and that she want to put boundaries ...

What to do from here? to continue with texting and wait until she change mind?
Author:  Kaher [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 2:18 pm ]
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now i m in contact with her. We exchange PM on Facebook. I think that she never shows him what she does on fb. i asked her how she is and so on ... At one point i ask her if she want to go for drink so we can chat. She said that we can do texting but it is not possible to go for an drink. I asked her is that boyfriend not allowing her to see with me and she reply me that he allow her everything and that she want to put boundaries ...

What to do from here? to continue with texting and wait until she change mind?
Dear B.

I know it's painful, I know it hurts to know that someone you still love started a new relationship.

In my opinion, smthg was possible just after the break, but unfortunatly (and clearly most of men would have acted the same as you) you had a AFC behavior.

Just look the truth : she has the right to see you but does not want to. It seems clear that there is nothing to do right now ...

My only advice is to follow SimplyNotAwesome advice : flirt, finger and fuck every girl you can, it will be for you easy (you are a PA) and you will probably find some one that's exactly what you are looking for.
Author:  nighter [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:10 pm ]
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Take your phone and replace her name from whatever it is to August 29.

Don't send her any message or call until August 29th, one month from now.

You can say whatever you like to her, but only after that date. Take this time to fall off the face of the earth. Self-improvement is your only goal during this time. If she doesn't try and get ahold of you during this month-long sabbatical, you can evaluate whether you even want to say anything.

If she is "the One" and all the effort is coming from your end, what's in it for you?
i would vote for this suggestion!
Author:  baltazar [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:26 pm ]
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Fuck, i hate this :) It seems i must give up, now i m stronger, no more hard feelings. I will start with picking up girls and at same time i will try to forget my ex. I must work on my mindset, must be alfa male :) Any advice is welcome, you know i was 2 year with one girl, now i m free but i need to get back into a "game"
Author:  bp029 [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:48 pm ]
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Personally I would remove any connection to her that I could. Delete text messages in my phone (as well as her phone #), remove her from FB, delete all FB conversations with her. Sounds like it might be time to start fresh and go after other women.
Author:  Kaher [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:49 pm ]
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Personally I would remove any connection to her that I could. Delete text messages in my phone (as well as her phone #), remove her from FB, delete all FB conversations with her. Sounds like it might be time to start fresh and go after other women.
It the hardest part, but clearly the safest way to proceed
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