Hey Guys
I am 24 above average looking and just out of a long term relationship with a girl I met online.
Just did my first approach ever with a girl I kind of know from a martial arts gym.
Anyways, talked a little before the hour long class began made her smile a few times ... I was nervous as fuck, fidgeted a little ... eye contact wasnt great... but I felt this vibe from her that she was a little nervous herself but still into me.
We locked eyes a couple of times during class also.
So the class ended and I just called her over and asked her if she would like to go for a coffee sometime. She looked anyway did a nervous laugh/smile... then I said "no?, its cool..." and she mumbled something that didnt really make sense something like "your just a new guy in gym". I began to walk away and said "ok let me know if you change your mind." while smiling.
I went to class a couple of days later and she wouldnt look in my general direction and I didnt really want to look in her direction either ! (didnt want to give her the impression I was a creep/stalker/obsessed with her)
And that is pretty much it. I am glad I did the approach and planning on approaching a couple of complete strangers tomorrow ... but I dont want things to be awkward between us as we will be seeing allot of each other... whats the best way to handle this ?
Also any general advice appreciated
