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| Author: | maliciousIntent [ Sat Jul 28, 2012 1:54 am ] |
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wassup everyone new to these forums, but have read a lot before i registered. i need some advice. met this girl off pof a few months ago, f-closed first night, we have had two official dates and 5 hangouts, 2 of those hangouts have been sex sleepovers at each others places. we would text quite often, sometimes she would start sometimes myself. but i think i actually texted her too much more recently and have backed off the last week or so. i don't want to completely stop cause then she'll move on. i like her and have more fun with her than most girls and she knows that, that might be the problem there. when we are together she is all over me and she lets me do whatever i want to her. so over the last 3 weeks we have had one sex sleepover, with light playful sexting including pics, then week and a half ago a date that went well with making out in front of her house with grabbing/rubbing no sex. since then only a few texts no calls. i called once, text just goodnight twice. seems she has died out but shows major interest when we are together. she is busy with school/work/kid. what to do? did i show too much interest? I'm thinking of calling her for a Sunday date |
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Sat Jul 28, 2012 2:12 am ] |
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Keep yourself busy, stop making her the end-all-be-all. Remove yourself from outcome, keep yourself open to creating opportunities with new girls and continue where you left off with this one. If anything, over-thinking things like many of the guys do on this board will get you in trouble; there's nothing saying she needs to talk to you all the time for her to be interested. If she's showing it in person, that's all that matters at the end of the day. Make plans with her, be mysterious, keep her a bit off balance by being a bit aloof (showing a lot of interest at times, and other times seeming a bit per-occupied), be spontaneous such as telling her there's something you've gotta show her and driving her some place out of town to show her some spectacular view, or a dinner to her favorite restaurant. |
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