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Author:  afcme123 [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:39 pm ]
Post subject:  few questions about body language

Ok.. Few questions about body language..

1) If someone crosses there legs towards you.. (example.. You are sitting on the left of a girl, and she puts her right leg over her left) Is that good? Or is it when they cross the leg away from you thats good??

2) When someone is mimicking your body language (example, you lean back and cross your arms, and they do the same) Thats a good sign right?

3) (back story) I was in the math center the other day, and I asked for help by looking over to the tutor and asking her to come over.. The sub (SMOKING HOT 8 or 9) Proceeded to put her knees on the roll chair that was by her and roll towards me.. She proceeded to help me for the next 10 minutes while being bent over the chair!!
Is that a sexual IOI??

Her knees where on the chair and her stomach was on the back of the chair so her boobs weren't blocked from site!!

Author:  Rockets88 [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:43 pm ]
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1. Not quite sure. I sometimes cross my legs when i am uncomfortable and i sometimes i cross my legs when i am trying to get comfortable.

2. Mimicking is a definitely a good sign

3. Your reading too much into this. Plus i cant really figure out the position of the girl from your description.

Moral of the story is focus less on the TOI body language and more on improving yours.

Author:  juvx [ Fri Jul 27, 2012 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: few questions about body language

Quote:
Ok.. Few questions about body language..

1) If someone crosses there legs towards you.. (example.. You are sitting on the left of a girl, and she puts her right leg over her left) Is that good? Or is it when they cross the leg away from you thats good??

2) When someone is mimicking your body language (example, you lean back and cross your arms, and they do the same) Thats a good sign right?

3) (back story) I was in the math center the other day, and I asked for help by looking over to the tutor and asking her to come over.. The sub (SMOKING HOT 8 or 9) Proceeded to put her knees on the roll chair that was by her and roll towards me.. She proceeded to help me for the next 10 minutes while being bent over the chair!!
Is that a sexual IOI??

Her knees where on the chair and her stomach was on the back of the chair so her boobs weren't blocked from site!!
As for your questions. 1 t does not matter. 2. its good but not great (some people just follow) 3. Some girls are just naturally sexy like this dont read too much into it or think its an IOI unless its accompanied with other IOIs such as verbal or touching you.
IoIs or not she seems like she would be receptive so why not run some game on her?

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sat Jul 28, 2012 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: few questions about body language

Quote:
Ok.. Few questions about body language..

1) If someone crosses there legs towards you.. (example.. You are sitting on the left of a girl, and she puts her right leg over her left) Is that good? Or is it when they cross the leg away from you thats good??

2) When someone is mimicking your body language (example, you lean back and cross your arms, and they do the same) Thats a good sign right?

3) (back story) I was in the math center the other day, and I asked for help by looking over to the tutor and asking her to come over.. The sub (SMOKING HOT 8 or 9) Proceeded to put her knees on the roll chair that was by her and roll towards me.. She proceeded to help me for the next 10 minutes while being bent over the chair!!
Is that a sexual IOI??

Her knees where on the chair and her stomach was on the back of the chair so her boobs weren't blocked from site!!
1. Crossed legs are a signal that requires you reading all of her body language sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad. If she is crossing her legs toward you and "exposing" more thigh it could be a good thing at the same time she could be crossing her legs to close her off.

Look for preens and submissive signals when it comes to reading attraction along with eye contact.

2. Mirroring body language is definitely a sign of attraction. In Timothy Perper's final phase before sex he talks about falling in sync where a couple begins to mirror each other's body language. A woman mirroring you is definitely attracted and I highly recommend you begin to escalate.

3. This can be or can't be attraction if you learn to read attraction as a whole then you can tell whether she is attracted. I am really behind on my show Does She Like Me? here is a link poeticlyskuacs-body-language-show-does- ... 37501.html (or click the link in my sig to the website) but the episode I'm working on is space, overtures, and touch for showing attraction would help you a bit in understanding whether she is attracted. In this situation you should gauge distance and look for preening and submissive signals once again.

Don't limit the value of any one sign to decide whether someone is attracted because there are so many different ways it can be different this time. Most of the time a lot of things are showing attraction but even when a woman preens it could merely be a uncomfortable pacifying behavior.

Peace and Love

Vic

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