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| Author: | DM [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | WTF now?? How to calibrate women |
I have known this one girl for ages (lets call her Jane), pretty much from birth. I'm visiting family in Europe now, and me and this girl have hung out a few times and its obvious she likes me. The problem is I see her as more of a friend/sister than anything else. Plus I value my relationship with her brother. Now theres this one other girl I like, who happens to be a good friend of hers. We've chilled a few times, but shes always bringing up Jane, and how she would hate to compromise her friendship etc etc (so she won't kiss me) but at the same time shes touching me, cuddling, telling me shes alone on the weekend bla bla. Mixed signals. What do I do? How can I calibrate her to forget about 'Jane' and plow through this roadblock?? |
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| Author: | juvx [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: WTF now?? How to calibrate women |
Quote: I have known this one girl for ages (lets call her Jane), pretty much from birth. I'm visiting family in Europe now, and me and this girl have hung out a few times and its obvious she likes me. The problem is I see her as more of a friend/sister than anything else. Plus I value my relationship with her brother. Now theres this one other girl I like, who happens to be a good friend of hers. We've chilled a few times, but shes always bringing up Jane, and how she would hate to compromise her friendship etc etc (so she won't kiss me) but at the same time shes touching me, cuddling, telling me shes alone on the weekend bla bla. Mixed signals. What do I do? How can I calibrate her to forget about 'Jane' and plow through this roadblock??
Iv had this happen before. What i did is completely ignored her words and focused on her body language. First and foremost she is programmed to say all that by girl code. But inside she wants you. You have to keep telling yourself that. And everything you do you should keep that in the back of your mind. Alcohol helps in these situations because all she needs is ONE excuse to make out or have sex with you and YOU have to provide that excuse. also..Again focus on her body language. If she says No and but doesn't pull away at all re-calibrate by saying "Trust me, don't worry about it". look her in the eyes like you want to kiss. Do the triangle. Look at right eye then left eye then lips and then back up. Hold for around 2-3 secs on each. and Kino escalate. |
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| Author: | MrBreeze [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 8:37 pm ] |
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Agreed with juvx. Can you get an endorsement from Jane? |
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| Author: | charblad [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 9:48 pm ] |
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Are you sure you're escalating right? Sounds like she's still using logic instead of emotion, she should be Soo in the moment she doesn't know what's going in around her, not thinking of everyone else, but only you. If you are take it steadier, it's not always a race, make sure shes ok with hugging you, and your leg touching hers, and your holding her hands, instead of saying "hi" an tying to get her in bed |
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| Author: | DM [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 10:18 am ] |
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Right yeah, I'm trying to figure this one out. Its a small city, and I've been hearing this excuse a few times "We shouldn't because of Jane"... I like your thinking juvx  But, what should I say (or do) in response to something like "We can't be more than friends because I don't want to jeopardize my friendship", so that I don't sound like an Indian mob boss trying to smooth over an arranged marriage? |
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| Author: | Pokee [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 1:25 pm ] |
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Just tell her that you see Jane as a friend/sister but you are aware of her feelings, that's why you have to keep this strictly between us. "I don't brag to others about my escapades, and I expect my partners to do the same. Can you handle that?" |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 2:09 pm ] |
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Quote: "We can't be more than friends because I don't want to jeopardize my friendship"
Mirror her concerns while your using Kino and kissing!Include as Pokee said: Quote: ust tell her that you see Jane as a friend/sister but you are aware of her feelings, that's why you have to keep this strictly between us. "I don't brag to others about my escapades, and I expect my partners to do the same. Can you handle that?"
I don't think it will take much, she just want to make sure it's "not her fault" it just happened!. So that is the frame you need to set. |
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| Author: | juvx [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 6:58 pm ] |
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Quote: Right yeah, I'm trying to figure this one out. Its a small city, and I've been hearing this excuse a few times "We shouldn't because of Jane"... I like your thinking juvx
Remember you are never trying to SELL YOURSELF. You are always spinning things to where she ends up selling herself to YOU. So you agree with her. You tell her you understand and feel the same way. IN FACT (some darker side of game) But, what should I say (or do) in response to something like "We can't be more than friends because I don't want to jeopardize my friendship", so that I don't sound like an Indian mob boss trying to smooth over an arranged marriage? Spin things on HER. Tell her you cant kiss or have sex with her because you'd feel bad. At the same time your actions are doing the complete opposite. Try to not talk about it at all or change the subject to Use the power of Qualification. "hey you seem fun and spontaneous, are you?" "You are? me too... are you adventurous?" "Yes !" " let do something crazy !!" "like what?" "Lets go skinny dipping !" Iv used that before. 4 times. lol had sex in random pools.. 4 times. hahaha that line works AMAZING to take girls you just met to club bathrooms too.
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