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Author:  BITmixit [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Should I wait or text?
About a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend of a year. 3 days later my housemate took me out drinking with his coursemates, one of them being this banging girl. I wasn't really up for putting a game on so just decided to have a good night.

At the start of the night I thought she wasn't interested at all. Kept calling my hair messy and taking the piss out of my socks. Then randomly she grabbed my hand and wouldn't let go, moments later got off with her then took her back to mine for awesome sex.

She admitted to me that when she first saw me she thought "Woah" and found me really hot. Before I get to the complications happening SPAM just know that I am pretty good at sex and have a damn good sized knob. She had a good time needless to say. The next day she went home (in london) then 3 days later came back to pretty much shag me again (her flat had nobody in it, she went shopping a bit and the rest in my bad. Blates came back for sex.

Anyway a couple days later we both returned home from uni and this is where it gets annoying. Shes not back at uni (portsmouth) till end of september and im not back till mid august, texting was great at first but running out of shit to talk about. Then she went on holiday, we had a bit of banter before then she left.

She returned about a week ago (back to london) and hasn't text me. Either she is waiting for me to text her first or has lost interest due to distance + time + no sex = interest lost.

What sort of game should I start now? My idea was to simply text her tomorrow "You are fucking stunning" to make her surprised/reignite interestingness. if she replies be like "*response to what she said* u back then?" then in a week or so suggest she come visit me in portsmouth when I move into my house for fun.

thoughts/suggest?
Author:  LD [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:26 pm ]
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:) Dude, life really aint that complicated.

if she already has come knocking at your door for sex before, just text her that you want to meet up again. Its that simple. If she has truly lost interest, she will not reply or make up some pretext.

But if you are as good in sex as you say you are, she will not have lost interest. So, text her that you want to meet up again; Dont ask for anything, just tell her what you want. I am pretty sure you will see her again.

good luck and cheers!
Author:  BITmixit [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:38 pm ]
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:) Dude, life really aint that complicated.

if she already has come knocking at your door for sex before, just text her that you want to meet up again. Its that simple. If she has truly lost interest, she will not reply or make up some pretext.

But if you are as good in sex as you say you are, she will not have lost interest. So, text her that you want to meet up again; Dont ask for anything, just tell her what you want. I am pretty sure you will see her again.

good luck and cheers!
She can be very...odd I guess, Guess its a kind of shield but here's an example:

Me: Haven't heard you moan in such a long time!

Her: Yeah and it'll be ages before I see you again.

Me: The time will fly by.

Her: Not that I ever want to see you again, lol :P

Me: You are too sweet :P

Its standard hard to getness but seems to hit me different then other girls. She also loves calling me names like "slut" and "whorebag" when I call her "sexy" or "gorgeous" she doesn't know it yet but I do suffer from SA and when I was younger was severely overweight and thus bullied. (All slim and tone now :D ) That wasn't amazingly long ago now tho so I still suffer from low confidence.

Also as I explained I can't see her till I move to portsmouth which is 3 weeks away. I don't want her coming here due to parents (she is fucking loud and dirty to boot) and she doesn't move into her house in portsmouth till end of september.

Seriously brah where we meet?
Author:  LD [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:48 pm ]
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hey mate,

with oddness and silly stuff, the name calling etc... you should always remember the following (i think it was Freud who said something like it): Truth lies in action.

No matter what she said, she keeps texting you, she keeps in touch, she did knock at your door for more sex. See through the fog of words and look at what she is doing. This is not easy though, believe me. We as men are more fund of words, they seem to mean more to us while actions usually slip under our attention.

Dont mind her words. Dont let them get under your skin nor let them corrode your confidence. Its what she does that really matters.

cheers
Author:  BITmixit [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 11:38 pm ]
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hey mate,

with oddness and silly stuff, the name calling etc... you should always remember the following (i think it was Freud who said something like it): Truth lies in action.

No matter what she said, she keeps texting you, she keeps in touch, she did knock at your door for more sex. See through the fog of words and look at what she is doing. This is not easy though, believe me. We as men are more fund of words, they seem to mean more to us while actions usually slip under our attention.

Dont mind her words. Dont let them get under your skin nor let them corrode your confidence. Its what she does that really matters.

cheers
Literally my only worry is due to it being two weeks since we last text/talked. This being due to her going on holiday and me working extra hours at work/playing it cool that I might have simply waited too long.

Is all I guess :)
Author:  BITmixit [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 1:11 pm ]
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Update:

Things still seem :/ she didn't text me back for about 2 days so I was assuming that it had just been too long. Then I randomly checked my phone and had received a text that goes something like this:

Her: What have you been upto? x

Me: Just been having fun the usual, how was the holiday? bet you missed insulting me :P

Her: The Holiday was really good thanks. Spent most of it naked in the sun or in the pool. x

My general rule of texting is if she doesn't ask a question then keep the responding text quite short, abrupt and to the point. If she asks a question be more inviting and such. However with this im stumped.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 4:12 pm ]
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Dude, you've got a month to wait til you see her again...

So what?


So she sent a text about being naked... big deal. Don't fall into a text trap where you seem needy or tolerable of her insulting you (the comment to her about not being able to insult you... yeah, I wasn't a fan of it...)

Just be fun: "Naked sunbathing - cool. I don't like tan lines. Get that shit fixed!" and a smilie....


Game other chicks and don't worry about it. YOU throw a random text in a couple weeks and see what happens... But I'll make you a bet - I bet she's not the only chick around that you can game.... :wink:



RR
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